>Charlotte<
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And what is likely to happen not that far ahead is when one or all of you get out of the initial "let's all be civil and friendly about this" phase and start reacting like a lot of people eventually react (I don't want to say "most people" because I can't back it up, but I'd bet good money).You really need to think that far ahead, because it very well could happen.
If I understand correctly from other threads I've read on this forum, any money your boyfriend gives the mother of his child could, in future court proceedings, be considered merely a "gift", and Mom can go for retroactive child support. Will an attorney please confirm or refute that?