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Bloopy

Senior Member
I'm also curious then, since it is intended as a derogatory name, why is it that everyone got so offended when I used the abbrieviation BM to describe my husband's ex? I clearly didn't intend it derogatorily, and I know that she hasn't stalked him over to this forum and done his nasty business in front of everyone, but isn't he still the only father your children has, just as the mom in my sd's life is the only mom that she has, and should accordingly be given respect?
Actually, CJane has been spanked in the past for her pet names, but they stuck anyhow.

I’d be cooler with BM referring to Mom as Bowel Movement. Yup it’s gross and derogatory, but it’s only a sign of animosity between the parents… However, a third party chiming in with derogatory comments is not going to be as well received. Calling a mom a Birth Mother suggests she’s been replaced with a Real Mother. A Mother or Father, CrackWhore or Asshat they may be, shouldn’t casually be stripped of their role as parent. Even if the CPs new bedwarmer is a wonderful step-parent.

If a parent truly deserves to be stripped of their Mom/Dad status, then the proper procedure is termination of parental rights. It’s extremely rare that THAT is actually warranted.
 
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TinkerBelleLuvr

Senior Member
Heck, I'm still working on how to bribe OG to work with my case up the NEIGHBORING state. My attorney is great in court, but lousy with the followup paperwork. But, she's willing to go head-to-head with my X, so I remain quiet. I actually had attorney's decline my case when they figured out WHO my X was. He has THAT bad of a reputation in town.

The weather report here in Florida is LOUSY. We were supposed to see shooting stars tonight ... we have incredible amounts of rain instead. I think we have something going on because of Olga.
 

TheGeekess

Keeper of the Kraken
Heck, I'm still working on how to bribe OG to work with my case up the NEIGHBORING state. My attorney is great in court, but lousy with the followup paperwork. But, she's willing to go head-to-head with my X, so I remain quiet. I actually had attorney's decline my case when they figured out WHO my X was. He has THAT bad of a reputation in town.

The weather report here in Florida is LOUSY. We were supposed to see shooting stars tonight ... we have incredible amounts of rain instead. I think we have something going on because of Olga.
Send the rain north. We could use it! ;)
 

CourtClerk

Senior Member
Stand in line for OG Ginny. If ever I grow tired of dealing with the ex and his idiot of an attorney, I'm going to have her admitted to practice in CA, fly her out here, take her out for drinks, then let her deal with the foolishness that is him and his attorney.

Wait... we may have to get juvenile in our fight over OG, so I'll say...

I SAW HER FIRST!!!!:p;)
 

CourtClerk

Senior Member
Southern Cali is getting cold. It's in the 40's at night, only about 68 during the day. A couple of weeks ago it was almost 80. Mother Nature can't make up her mind.
 

TinkerBelleLuvr

Senior Member
:cool::pWell, we have Mickey and Donald here! :D;):p

Warm ocean waters ....
Never over a 100 here near the coast ...
We can even take our doggy to frolic in the waves ...
Seaworld
Busch Gardens
Epcot (Food & Wine Festival)
Mickey and Friends
The Keys
Warm weather YEAR round

Oh, OG ... the have FIRES in California
 

Bloopy

Senior Member
:cool::pWell, we have Mickey and Donald here! :D;):p

Warm ocean waters ....
Never over a 100 here near the coast ...
We can even take our doggy to frolic in the waves ...
Seaworld
Busch Gardens
Epcot (Food & Wine Festival)
Mickey and Friends
The Keys
Warm weather YEAR round

Oh, OG ... the have FIRES in California
May a Gator snack on you
 

majomom1

Senior Member
Actually, CJane has been spanked in the past for her pet names, but they stuck anyhow.

I’d be cooler with BM referring to Mom as Bowel Movement. Yup it’s gross and derogatory, but it’s only a sign of animosity between the parents… However, a third party chiming in with derogatory comments is not going to be as well received. Calling a mom a Birth Mother suggests she’s been replaced with a Real Mother. A Mother or Father, CrackWhore or Asshat they may be, shouldn’t casually be stripped of their role as parent. Even if the CPs new bedwarmer is a wonderful step-parent.

If a parent truly deserves to be stripped of their Mom/Dad status, then the proper procedure is termination of parental rights. It’s extremely rare that THAT is actually wanted.
Very nicely stated Bloopy...:)

ncpdad --- several of the senior members here, ripping step parents... are also step parents themselves. So it is not that the step parent, it is the overstepping that doesn't set well.

There is no beef with 'steps' in general and my hat is off to those of you that love the kids and work for their best interest. I fully support that life in the home is your business... finances and all are your life too.
 

>Charlotte<

Lurker
Maybe the 'gator will get her by accidentally running into her while trying to get away from the "palmetto" bugs. Those mothers are huge.
 

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