Get your order modified with regards to communication (by email - the best, or written notice) and the two weeks in summer.Thank you everybody for your input and support.
Most of you have said it in your replys, I also have all the school supplies we need, I think, we have not received the list from the school yet, but we have the basics. The only reason I want her home is to get back into routine. She does not have her own bed at her father's house yet and sleeps with her 5-6 yr old step sister. I know she does not go to bed when told, she has told me so. She is NOT a morning person, as I am aslon not, so we need to be ready.
Unfortunetly, he has changed the weeks he wants her once already. And I have never had to deal with this issue before because he rarely took every other weekend before this year. Never has he taken her for more than a Sat-Sun visit. This is new since the new woman in his life. Now since I have stated we are sticking to the visitation schedule in the decree, he won't even speak to me. I don't know what to do.
Thank you for your advice!
It stinks when communication breaks down, so you have to use your CO to clarify and keep the boundaries.