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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas
i have an interesting dilemma regarding my sis-in-law.
my mom-in-law and ex-step-dad-in-law (my husbands step-dad and mom had his half-sis and then divorced) are in a custody battle.
basically, in my non-experienced opinion, the dad lives in a 2 bedroom house w/small office used as a bedroom and lives there with his gf and her 4 sons ages 9-19 and 1 grandchild WITH my sis-in-law who just turned 13. thats 8 ppl in this tiny house. (is that legal?)
the mom lives in a 2 bedroom apartment alone.
at first mom had custody bc dad didnt want to care for my sis-in-law at that point. then one day she went for visititation over to dad's and dad never let her go back to her moms but mom did nothing to try and get her back.
mom has a borderline bad pill/alcohol problem and dad has sexual/porn problems rampant throughtout his family.
so there are pros and cons to both parents. as her sister-in-law i want the best for her but i dont know which is best. in my opinion neither parent want to pay CS which is too bad but neither home is SAFE for her. i may not be 'blood' but i am very worried about her situation. is it possible/smart/stupid for her, obviously if agreed, to stay with me and her brother? i feel its the safest place anyway!
thanks in advance for any advice or opinions!!!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
i have an interesting dilemma regarding my sis-in-law.
my mom-in-law and ex-step-dad-in-law (my husbands step-dad and mom had his half-sis and then divorced) are in a custody battle.
basically, in my non-experienced opinion, the dad lives in a 2 bedroom house w/small office used as a bedroom and lives there with his gf and her 4 sons ages 9-19 and 1 grandchild WITH my sis-in-law who just turned 13. thats 8 ppl in this tiny house. (is that legal?)
the mom lives in a 2 bedroom apartment alone.
at first mom had custody bc dad didnt want to care for my sis-in-law at that point. then one day she went for visititation over to dad's and dad never let her go back to her moms but mom did nothing to try and get her back.
mom has a borderline bad pill/alcohol problem and dad has sexual/porn problems rampant throughtout his family.
so there are pros and cons to both parents. as her sister-in-law i want the best for her but i dont know which is best. in my opinion neither parent want to pay CS which is too bad but neither home is SAFE for her. i may not be 'blood' but i am very worried about her situation. is it possible/smart/stupid for her, obviously if agreed, to stay with me and her brother? i feel its the safest place anyway!
thanks in advance for any advice or opinions!!!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?