I have never claimed that the father's not responsible. Where in my posts did you read that insinuation? He's absolutely responsible for paying the Child Support.
The point is, he ran off to hide from his responsibility & the government agency that is suppose to be responsible for hunting him down at his KNOWN address & forcing him to pay up is not only being negligent in it's duty, it's outright REFUSING to do so.
You may think I'm full of it all you like. You haven't walked the mile in my shoes however.
If someone carelessly hits you with a car & you sustain a serious but treatable injury, you can be certain the person driving the car is to blame. And you have every right to pursue legal collection on that obligation. But the injury still needs to be treated, correct? But then, what if your insurance insists you be treated at a particular hospital (which is a common practice with insurance companies) & that hospital refuses to treat your injury, despite having the means, legal & ethical obligation to do so? So not only are you injured & forced to pay for treatment out of your own pocket at a different hospital; you may be left with a chronic injury directly as a result of the delay in treatment. Who then is to blame for the chronic nature of the injury?
My son has been financially deprived (injured) for 10 years. Yes I want his father to pay up. And I've done EVERYTHING I can reasonably do to make that happen. The point is that those who are suppose to help me are refusing to do so & they are also due some repercussions for their negligence.
THAT is the point.