LdiJ
Senior Member
My neighbor's son is a cross dresser. He is also gay. He kept both items from his children (who lived with him, he only had his fun time during mom's visitation). He kept it from them all the way up until they were teens, and then it was MAJOR drama.it's my fault for what? her being a biggot? maybe i should exspand my bitch about GM she is a biggot and speaks of such on almost every subject including trashing lesbians and she is one. I was hoping to let them know about it in my own way maybe one halloween night but to date they have gone to GM for halloween (great big 55+ park lots of nana's passing out lots of candy)
Had he introduced the whole concept to them when they were young, in an age appropriate way, they would have grown up with it and it would not have been such a "drama" when they found out.
Yes, its bad that Nana is being so spiteful and nasty. However, there is absolutely nothing at all that you can do to stop that. All you can do is as others have suggested, and take the wind out of Nana's sails by being open and honest (age appropriate) with the kids.