Just so everyone has it handy, I want them to read your previous thread.
https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-custody-visitation-37/communication-565825.html
You have tried every which way from Thursday to stick it to Mom.
Even though everyone seems to think you have a chance on this thread, I don't. A judge is not going to penalize Mom because she has a job in these lean economic times. And I'm the one who lives in Bama and has a pretty good idea about this state's court climate.
I do NOT see you prevailing, especially since you seem to be dragging Mom into court every 3-4 months or so for this, that or the other. Judges get tired of you frequent flyers.