Sadsinglemom
Junior Member
OP, you seem to think your ex is to blame for your living situation. How much responsibility for your situation do you take? You chose to have a baby with this man. You chose to live in California. You chose to not take a second job. You chose to take a job from 10-7 that won't support you and your son without welfare. You chose.. I could continue. You are the one in control of your own life. And you are also the one responsible for your life. Quit making excuses.
i didnt finish college it's hard to find a good paid job, my current job is the best I found so far that can support both of us (thanks to the help of welfare also) I also tried to move out California once but it's hard just for 2 of us.
I tried 2 jobs but the salary wasn't as much at this job. its just sad to know the truth, how could he is irresponsible to his son. After reading everyone comments, I guess my last hope on child support failed, I was hoping to get more than $160 so I can cancel my welfare. Thank you ohiogal