No, it does not look bad - it actually puts you in a move favorable light (in my eyes anyway) - you are doing what you know needs to be done for your kids. That is right and proper, difficult though it is. And... perhaps your b/f should get himself snipped?
He should be helping support his child. Period.
I know of some of the programs like tanf but i dont know much about it and i didnt know that they have ged and job placement programs. I have always been told you have to pay for ged classes. I'll have to call and find out more information about them because at this point im willing to do anything.
Call your local employment office and ask them about GED classes. They may have information about the programs there. Many places also have websites that you can locate and read. You need to educate yourself and take control of your own life. You need to not be ignorant about the choices out there. Educating yourself on ways of helping yourself (without depriving your boyfriend's legal children because yours are not legally his children)helps your children. But the first step is taking responsibility for your situation without blaming others and then moving forward.
I have told him he needs to get snipped many times but he always says no. No he hasnt but he acknowledge that they are his.
Legally he has NOT acknowledged that they are his. And you can't control him. You can only control yourself. So get yourself snipped.
Just posted the government website that has sites that are low-cost or free for the GED. She needs to read the whole thing. (The whole website that is)
Personally ...I would dump his a$$. The "man" has four children he can't support. He has NO business making more. And his saying "their my children" means NOTHING LEGALLY. He has not legal rights/responsibility towards them.
And then you say no when he wants to get his groove on.
We have looked in to getting him put on the birth certificates and we would have to go to court to have it done because by law he could not sign the birth certificates. Thank you for the information
He would NEVER sign the birth certificates. He COULD however sign the affidavit of paternity for each child. So why hasn't he EVER done that? Are you married to someone else?
I want lie i have been thinking about it. Because i havs tried to give him what advice i could about his where he stands in all of this and he did not listen and this is where we are now.
I didnt know about the affidavit of paternity where do you get one? I have been trying to get a divorce for four years now.
