Ohiogal
Queen Bee
You aren't being accountable. YOU allowed him to hold them out as his kids. YOU allowed him to be treated as if he had parental rights. What did YOU do to encourage the children to have a relationship with their actual father? How many times did you encourage the children to call their actual father? How many times did you tell the children not to call your buddy, dad? How many times did you tell him that he wasn't their father and did not have that right to be called dad before you married him and when everything was great?Assuming makes an ass out you... I'm not trying to 'screw him over.'
He has always held them out as 'his kids.' He 'demands' to be 'treated as if he 'has' parental rights, but he refuses the 'responsibility' that those rights come with.
I will do what I have to do to teach my children what it means to be accountable.
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