Florida, Step Parent Child Support Under Estoppel Forms

[Ohiogal]

Assuming makes an ass out you... I'm not trying to 'screw him over.'

He has always held them out as 'his kids.' He 'demands' to be 'treated as if he 'has' parental rights, but he refuses the 'responsibility' that those rights come with.

I will do what I have to do to teach my children what it means to be accountable.

You aren't being accountable. YOU allowed him to hold them out as his kids. YOU allowed him to be treated as if he had parental rights. What did YOU do to encourage the children to have a relationship with their actual father? How many times did you encourage the children to call their actual father? How many times did you tell the children not to call your buddy, dad? How many times did you tell him that he wasn't their father and did not have that right to be called dad before you married him and when everything was great?

 

[MomFightsBack]

What makes you think you're entitled to child support from a man who did not father your child?

Answered this judgmental question in new posts... what makes you think a man is 'entitled' to take on two step children, hold them out as 'his', have an affair, emotionally and financially abuse his wife and children, demand legal rights but refuse to pay the same 'support' any 'legal or bio dad' would have to pay if he decided to abandon his family?

 

[Ohiogal]

Answered this judgmental question in new posts... what makes you think a man is 'entitled' to take on two step children, hold them out as 'his', have an affair, emotionally and financially abuse his wife and children, demand legal rights but refuse to pay the same 'support' any 'legal or bio dad' would have to pay if he decided to abandon his family?

NOT HIS FAMILY. You are not entitled to have child support for YOUR children from HIM. Sue the actual father. Not your estranged husband.

 

[MomFightsBack]

Are you SERIOUSLY taking that as some sort of guarantee? That is couched in so many terms that there is no way it's going to happen, ESPECIALLY if you don't have an attorney.

Nope... not taking it as a 'guarantee' at all.

 

[MomFightsBack]

Using the material without attribution (even if paraphrased) is plagiarism. You've got a real attitude problem with the volunteers here. Take yourself to an attorney, you've pretty much burned the bridges here.

No, that's not plagiarism. I'm a professional writer. I know the definition of plagiarism.

And no, I don't have an 'attitude' problem, I'm responding to some very judgmental attitudes from people who have no idea what the back story is and who are assuming that just because I want to file for child support I'm just a 'gold digging' whore... and nothing could be further from the truth...

I didn't ask for anyone's 'opinion' on whether I could or should file for this... I asked if anyone knew of specific forms or resources I could use to draft my own forms and motions...

The case is for the courts to decide.

 

[Ohiogal]

No, that's not plagiarism. I'm a professional writer. I know the definition of plagiarism.

And no, I don't have an 'attitude' problem, I'm responding to some very judgmental attitudes from people who have no idea what the back story is and who are assuming that just because I want to file for child support I'm just a 'gold digging' whore... and nothing could be further from the truth...

I didn't ask for anyone's 'opinion' on whether I could or should file for this... I asked if anyone knew of specific forms or resources I could use to draft my own forms and motions...

The case is for the courts to decide.

Basically I highly doubt anyone is going to help you make a mockery of the law and try to get revenge.

 

[MomFightsBack]

NOT HIS FAMILY. You are not entitled to have child support for YOUR children from HIM. Sue the actual father. Not your estranged husband.

Once again, you're making assumptions about issues you actually know nothing at all about.

Again, I didn't ask for 'opinions' on the subject, I asked about resources.

 

[Zigner]

No, that's not plagiarism. I'm a professional writer. I know the definition of plagiarism.

Yes, it is plagiarism. Perhaps you need to bone up on the basics. Plagiarism is not just using the exact words without attribution, but the ideas as well.

http://www.plagiarism.org/article/what-is-plagiarism
http://writingcenter.unc.edu/tips-and-tools/plagiarism/
http://library.ucsc.edu/help/research/what-is-plagiarism
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/plagiarize

...and on and on and on...

 

[Zigner]

...and you won't find "forms" to use, because Florida doesn't allow it.

If you don't like the answer, go get your own attorney. Really.

 

[Ohiogal]

Once again, you're making assumptions about issues you actually know nothing at all about.

I won't go into the details of the why I would do this on a public forum because of people like you...

Again, I didn't ask for 'opinions' on the subject, I asked about resources. If you don't know what they are, you're just a troll looking to take your anger out on others from the anonymity of your computer screen.

I know the law, you ignorant wench.

I know Florida does not allow for what you want. I know the caselaw and law in Florida. But keep going. Keep on wallowing in your ignorance.


ETA: For anyone who is offended:

The definition of wench: NOUN

a girl or young woman.

Ignorant definition:ADJECTIVE
lacking knowledge or awareness in general; uneducated or unsophisticated: lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about something in particular: discourteous or rude:
synonyms: uneducated · unknowledgeable · untaught · unschooled · untutored · untrained · illiterate · unlettered · unlearned · unread · uninformed · unenlightened · benighted · inexperienced · [more]




I googled the definitions and those came up in a box. So go figure. If you are offended, you are an ignoramus.

 

[Ohiogal]

Yes, it is plagiarism. Perhaps you need to bone up on the basics. Plagiarism is not just using the exact words without attribution, but the ideas as well.

http://www.plagiarism.org/article/what-is-plagiarism
http://writingcenter.unc.edu/tips-and-tools/plagiarism/
http://library.ucsc.edu/help/research/what-is-plagiarism
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/plagiarize

...and on and on and on...

Zigner, SHE KNOWS...She's a professional ... she KNOWS...

 

[MomFightsBack]

No one but you said you were a gold digging whore. Basically I highly doubt anyone is going to help you make a mockery of the law and try to get revenge. Well, actually, there may be one person. You don't want opinions, go pay someone to put up with you so you can dictate how people should answer.

You need to pay a therapist to help you figure out why you make angry, harsh, judgmental assumptions about matters you know nothing about and continue to attack a complete stranger even after you've been corrected about your initial assumptions...

You started out in attack, assuming I am 'trying to screw him over'.... and no matter what I say to you to 'explain' the situation, you will continue to see me as the 'villain' and attack me, so it's irrelevant.

You've proven that by deflecting from the question of why you think he should be allowed to do what he did and then shifted the blame for his abuse to me, the victim of it.

I no more 'allowed' his abuse than a rape victim 'allowed herself to be raped.'

 

[Zigner]

Zigner, SHE KNOWS...She's a professional ... she KNOWS...

Right.....

 

[MomFightsBack]

Yes, it is plagiarism. Perhaps you need to bone up on the basics. Plagiarism is not just using the exact words without attribution, but the ideas as well.

http://www.plagiarism.org/article/what-is-plagiarism
http://writingcenter.unc.edu/tips-and-tools/plagiarism/
http://library.ucsc.edu/help/research/what-is-plagiarism
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/plagiarize

...and on and on and on...

It's not plagiarism and I'm not going to debate it with you. It's a waste of my time.

 

[Ohiogal]

You need to pay a therapist to help you figure out why you make angry, harsh, judgmental assumptions about matters you know nothing about and continue to attack a complete stranger even after you've been corrected about your initial assumptions...

You started out in attack, assuming I am 'trying to screw him over'.... and no matter what I say to you to 'explain' the situation, you will continue to see me as the 'villain' and attack me, so it's irrelevant.

You've proven that by deflecting from the question of why you think he should be allowed to do what he did and then shifted the blame for his abuse to me, the victim of it.

I no more 'allowed' his abuse than a rape victim 'allowed herself to be raped.'

You were not raped and how dare you bring that analogy into this. Again, go hire counsel. You haven't corrected anything.