My first child was born 6/30 and I dont want my mother anywhere near him.

[M.coners]

What is the name of your state?Ohio
I have a bad relationship with my mother because of her toxic self centered personality. Due to the way I was raised, or lack thereof, I developed dysthymic depression. I still see my mother daily because I live with her and I also see her at social events. I am unable to move in with the mother of my child due to her living situation so luckily my son does not live in my mother's house. I am concerned that she will try and pick up my son without permission. I think this because she picked up my girlfriends friends baby without asking and she didn't even know the mother. I am wondering if there is anything I can do to prevent her from having any contact with my son without skipping key events like my neices birthday party.

 

[CdwJava]

You can tell your mother, "No," and have your baby's mother do the same. But, if the baby's mother lets your mother pick up the child, then it's good.

If your relationship with mom is so bad why do you still live with her??? You don't like mom, you have a baby, maybe it's time to grow up and play the part of an adult. Or ... are you still a minor? Or, is the baby's mother still a minor? Maybe, both?

 

[M.coners]

I feel like I'm blaming the depression when I say this but I don't feel like I'm worth anything. I end up with a crap job so I can't afford to move out. I can't even understand why my girlfriend stands by my side.

 

[Just Blue]

I feel like I'm blaming the depression when I say this but I don't feel like I'm worth anything. I end up with a crap job so I can't afford to move out. I can't even understand why my girlfriend stands by my side.

How old are you? How old is the girlfriend?

 

[M.coners]

I'm pathetic I know

 

[Just Blue]

I'm pathetic I know

How old are you and the girlfriend?

 

[M.coners]

She have government assisted housing hence why I can't move in.

 

[Just Blue]

She have government assisted housing hence why I can't move in.

Are you trolling?

 

[M.coners]

Obviously I'm embarrassed to say how old I am but I am old enough. I pretty much raised myself so I am just now learning how to properly manage my money

 

[M.coners]

Are you trolling?

No I am not... I understand why you would ask but that hurt

 

[Just Blue]

Obviously I'm embarrassed to say how old I am but I am old enough. I pretty much raised myself so I am just now learning how to properly manage my money

Old enough?? What ...to live on your own or father a child? How old are you and how old is the GF?

 

[Just Blue]

No I am not... I understand why you would ask but that hurt

Then answer the questions please.

 

[M.coners]

Are you trolling

 

[M.coners]

Old enough?? What ...to live on your own or father a child? How old are you and how old is the GF?

We are legally adults... Any more detail is irrelevant

 

[M.coners]

You can tell your mother, "No," and have your baby's mother do the same. But, if the baby's mother lets your mother pick up the child, then it's good.

If your relationship with mom is so bad why do you still live with her??? You don't like mom, you have a baby, maybe it's time to grow up and play the part of an adult. Or ... are you still a minor? Or, is the baby's mother still a minor? Maybe, both?

It would be nice if that was enough but I feel like it wouldn't matter to my mother if we both said no. So Im wondering if I can take legal action if and when it happens