What is the name of your state? NYC
I’ll try and make it short. My ex has never been a part of our now 15 year old son. I have been in and out of court for years trying to get him to pay child support. We were just in Supreme Court in November 2018 and they ruled that the visitation would be handled between them on when they would visit and I have no part in this. My son has chosen not to contact his father unfortunately. He did spend some time during court proceedings because his law guardian asked him to and he was compliant and did so. He has no feelings for his father and wishes not to know him sadly.
so since court he had not paid any support that was established and I brought him back this summer. He told the referee that he didn’t notice that the support was not being taken out of his paycheck. So since then the order of arrears was put in and he is paying that back at random times and amounts(I won’t argue with that). But he still is not paying the monthly support. Now he has decided to take me back to court making allegations that I let our son drop out of high school which he has not. He is actually homeschooling and we are registered with the DOE and he is also stating that I let my son meet strangers off the internet to buy and sell clothing. My son uses a website and we go to the post office to ship any items and or pick them or up or they are delivered. I know he is doing this to get out of paying support but I know how corrupt our judicial system can be and I’m wondering if there is any chance that he could possibly win custody of our son? My son said he would basically run away if that ever happened. Any suggestions or answers would be grateful appreciated.
With gratitude,
Momof3nji
I’ll try and make it short. My ex has never been a part of our now 15 year old son. I have been in and out of court for years trying to get him to pay child support. We were just in Supreme Court in November 2018 and they ruled that the visitation would be handled between them on when they would visit and I have no part in this. My son has chosen not to contact his father unfortunately. He did spend some time during court proceedings because his law guardian asked him to and he was compliant and did so. He has no feelings for his father and wishes not to know him sadly.
so since court he had not paid any support that was established and I brought him back this summer. He told the referee that he didn’t notice that the support was not being taken out of his paycheck. So since then the order of arrears was put in and he is paying that back at random times and amounts(I won’t argue with that). But he still is not paying the monthly support. Now he has decided to take me back to court making allegations that I let our son drop out of high school which he has not. He is actually homeschooling and we are registered with the DOE and he is also stating that I let my son meet strangers off the internet to buy and sell clothing. My son uses a website and we go to the post office to ship any items and or pick them or up or they are delivered. I know he is doing this to get out of paying support but I know how corrupt our judicial system can be and I’m wondering if there is any chance that he could possibly win custody of our son? My son said he would basically run away if that ever happened. Any suggestions or answers would be grateful appreciated.
With gratitude,
Momof3nji
