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JackM678

Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas

I found out that I was lied to by a dentist telling me I needed more work done than I actually do because that dentist has quotas to meet.
I haven't actually done anything, but have anger management issues and thought of telling that dentist that if they don't refund my exam fees, I was going to come up there and practice some dentistry of my own on her. I only went there for a tooth extraction, but she refused to do it because of my blood pressure levels, and the next dentist who says that, I'm planning on telling them that one of the two of us in the room is going to have a tooth extraction before I left, and I'd rather it be me than them because I'm about 3 times their size.


Those are more metaphorical and can be interpreted in many ways though, so would I be able to use that as a defense if they tried calling the police and pressing charges?

I haven't done anything, but was just curious, so don't go crazy on me. Thanks for reading my vent and letting me use you guys as a release of frustration.
 


Taxing Matters

Overtaxed Member
Those are more metaphorical and can be interpreted in many ways though, so would I be able to use that as a defense if they tried calling the police and pressing charges?
I think you already know that if you said something like: "if I don't get what I want someone is leaving here teeth missing" that it can easily be perceived as a threat of violence against the dentist which end with you facing criminal charges for the threats. Don't do it. It's not worth it. If you need professional help to control your anger issues, seek out a good psychologist or therapist for that. An explosive temper can lead to all kinds of problems, including legal problems, that you really don't want to have to deal with.
 
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bcr229

Active Member
High blood pressure is a perfectly legit reason for the dentist not to perform the extraction, and it's how my husband learned that he had high blood pressure when he needed some dental work done. After a visit to the doctor he learned he has polycystic kidney disease and the high blood pressure is a symptom.

So, have you been to a doctor yet to determine why your blood pressure is high?
 

JackM678

Junior Member
I think my blood pressure is high mostly because of my weight, but It's always been elevated. No doctors have ever recommended medication for it thus far or said it concerned them.
 

JackM678

Junior Member
The problem is also that I'm dealing with a chronic cough for 5 months as well as other issues that the doctor's cannot diagnose right now so just have to monitor. They cannot prescribe blood pressure medications because I'm dealing with severe health issues that those medications can make far worse, so the only option I really have is to threaten and intimidate the dentist until they agree to do the procedure. I mean, they signed up for that. Dealing with difficult people is their job.
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
They cannot prescribe blood pressure medications because I'm dealing with severe health issues that those medications can make far worse,
Yet you say:
No doctors have ever recommended medication for it thus far or said it concerned them.
the only option I really have is to threaten and intimidate the dentist until they agree to do the procedure. I mean, they signed up for that. Dealing with difficult people is their job.
Yeah, no. People who are afraid or can't sit still or follow directions. Not people who threaten them.
 

JackM678

Junior Member
At the doctor the last few times the nurses have asked me if blood pressure was usually high for me and if I took medications for it. Yes, and no is what I've always told them. The doctors never commented on it, likely because I think what I was seeing them for was more important than that. If I take blood pressure medications, my cough, stomach problems, and chronic fatigue could get worse due to the side effects, so I'm kind of stuck with having to live with a broken tooth if the dentist won't operate and the doctor won't give meds for it. It seems the only other option I have is to scare them.
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
At the doctor the last few times the nurses have asked me if blood pressure was usually high for me and if I took medications for it. Yes, and no is what I've always told them. The doctors never commented on it, likely because I think what I was seeing them for was more important than that. If I take blood pressure medications, my cough, stomach problems, and chronic fatigue could get worse due to the side effects, so I'm kind of stuck with having to live with a broken tooth if the dentist won't operate and the doctor won't give meds for it. It seems the only other option I have is to scare them.
Nope. Your option is to deal with your medical issues first. And likely see an oral surgeon. Good luck.

p.s. The dentist is perfectly free to refuse service to a problem patient. Especially one who threatens them with violence.
 

JackM678

Junior Member
Well, when your size is 3 times that of the average person, you have to use it to your advantage sometimes, right? It's a gift.
 

not2cleverRed

Obvious Observer
Well, when your size is 3 times that of the average person, you have to use it to your advantage sometimes, right? It's a gift.
Not the way you're thinking.

Using your size as an advantage in a game of tug-o-war is acceptable.

Using you size to threaten people with bodily harm is not. Your "plan" will at best result in your health care provider firing you as a patient, as the dentist could credibly petition for a restraining order. Moreover, should news of your behavior spread, other health providers might reasonably decline to treat you on a nonemergency basis.
 
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cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
Unless it is literally a life-threatening situation, no dentist (or doctor either) has a legal obligation to treat you.
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas

I found out that I was lied to by a dentist telling me I needed more work done than I actually do because that dentist has quotas to meet.
I haven't actually done anything, but have anger management issues and thought of telling that dentist that if they don't refund my exam fees, I was going to come up there and practice some dentistry of my own on her. I only went there for a tooth extraction, but she refused to do it because of my blood pressure levels, and the next dentist who says that, I'm planning on telling them that one of the two of us in the room is going to have a tooth extraction before I left, and I'd rather it be me than them because I'm about 3 times their size.


Those are more metaphorical and can be interpreted in many ways though, so would I be able to use that as a defense if they tried calling the police and pressing charges?

I haven't done anything, but was just curious, so don't go crazy on me. Thanks for reading my vent and letting me use you guys as a release of frustration.
Jack,
Based on your posting history with this site, the kind of help you need you won't get on the internet.

https://forum.freeadvice.com/threads/case-for-defamation-mental-anguish.654025/
 

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