stealth2
Under the Radar Member
Sorry, SP, but I'm going to disagree. Sure, there are sports kids who should really be spending that time studying and/or in the library. And then you have those like my youngest. Lemme tell you about her.I don't care about scholarships -- I knew waaaaay too many sporty-types in college who learned nothing in hi-skool and nothing in college. Passed anyway, because they're sporty. It's meaningless. There's no education involved.
As far as keeping kids out of trouble? That's up to their parents, and themselves. They can stay plenty busy in the LIBRARY.
She's a freshman in HS. Instead of going to our local HS, she applied to, was accepted and attends a specialized science magnet school. She gets up every morning at 5am, to catch a bus at 5:30 - which takes her on a 1 1/2 hour commute. School lets out at 1pm, and then she gets back on the bus for another 1 1/2 hour commute. In the fall, she goes straight to our home HS (where my eldest goes) for field hockey. She's the only freshman who plays varsity - that's an achievement for a freshman, even more of one who doesn't actually attend the school. By the time she gets home, it's 7pm - she still has homework to do. She gets 6 weeks downtime before winter league starts. That runs for two months, two days a week. Then she plays on a travel team - she started last year as an 8th grader. She was the only non-HS girl in the league. That runs all spring & summer.
On top of that, she maintains an A average, in a school where all classes are taught at an AP/college level. When she's not in school or on the field, her nose is in a book, studying, or she's babysitting across the street. Honestly? I'd rather she spent some time at home, doing nothing, in front of the tv.
She is looking at scholarships in both academics and sports. MS and HS sports have done a LOT for her. They've given her a place to be competitive physically, they've kept her in shape, they've expanded her circle of friends, and they've expanded her leadership skills.
We're "lucky" in that her Dad is relatively uninvolved, so she has the flexibility to be involved as she is. Sure, I'd rather he was around - and she'd be giving up a lot of what she does. But he's not. That's life.
Sports are not a bad thing.