Ex and new hubby trying to get kids to call him DAD!

[CheeseHead]

You are insane rmet4nzkx!!!

I dont care what you believe about my name or someone elses name!

I dont really even care if this guys kids call someone else dad!

You called this man a liar. and still have not said sorry or admitted you were wrong.

Why are you so angry? (just sit back, put your feet up and ill listen)

Did you have a bad childhood? Tell me about your mother!

Lets talk!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

GEEEZZZZ CHEESEHEAD,
You sure get around quick for a newbie just on this site since amiunreasonable signed off.
Now you also want to bring the old thread up again? Yes I saw that, are you trying for some sort of record? How much attention do you need? This isn't JEOPARDY! Amiunreasonable you just can't stand not having the last word, you are so controlling that not only does the judge see right through you but you resort to such assinine pranks here because you know like the attention, good or bad, attention is attention. PLEASE GET SOME HELP!

BTW here is where he admits they are married and then goes on to deflect from the issue that he is LYING, by changing the subject:
"" now you admit she is remarried, might that have something to do with your intent?"
First of all, I am very happy that she has found happiness with a new marriage. Second, I was concerned about this Monday morning issue well before her marriage. I think her new husband is a GREAT guy and treats the girls wonderfully. I am so thankful for that."

So there is nothing for me to apologize for because he admitted he was not presenting an accurate picture, misrepresentation or lies, they are still the same.

Calling me insane?

Please get some help, please, take your concerns to court, let the judge write up your agreements, let the judge decide who gets called what and what is in the children's interest, perhaps an evaluation is in order?

I'll take a raincheck on your offer to listen, until after you bring a note from your therapist stating that you are qualified, make that the state of Nevada.

 

[fuall]

Please Marc,

Don't pay any attention to these posters who think they are "THARAPISTS".
This whole subject is very opinionated, and if your opinion is that you don't want your girls to call the step-father "dad'" then you are well within your rights. And you handled it in a very well manor.
No father or mother is perfect, and some of these posters like to think they are. They are probably just paranoid perfectionists who can't read so they sit around and watch "JEAPORDY" (you said it not me).
You know who you are!!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

To F-U-All - Humm I wonder what your handle means?

F-U-All,
I can read and you can't spell or even copy the words you misspelled.
"JEOPARDY" AND "THERAPISTS" are the correct spelling, but you apparently are the one who can't read or spell, you know who you are and what you think about all of us!

That being said, why should anyone hold you in higher esteem than trained and expericienced professionals,. No one said he was wrong for having feelings or opinions, it was the unrelenting manner of his unreasonable demeanor, controlling manner which was recognized by the courts and unwillingness to work through his issues with the best interest of his children in mind more so than his personal needs and wants. He needs a therapist, he admits wanting to vent, this is not the place.

None of his posts were about the best interest of his children, they were all petty complaints and attempts to gain sympathy and revenge against his wife.

Please go all the way back and read his posts, if you can't read, see if someone has a long time to read them to you.

 

[carofl93]

My husband's divorce decree states that no one other than the biological parent is to be called mother or father. Before we got physical custody, her mom's then boyfriend was being called "Daddy" while my husband was referred to by his first name. My hubby and I were married at the time, and I was referred to by many different unpostable names. When we got custody, I did not ask my stepdaughter to call me mom. She calls me by my first name. Her mom has been out of the picture now for over a year (Mother of the year bailed on her kid because she couldn't face reality or the fact that now she was supposed to pay the child support). I will not ask my stepdaughter to call me mom, but I will not ask her not to either. She can call me what she wants as long as it is respectful. I know it's a different situation, but I wanted to let you know that there are people out here who know how you feel.

 

[fuall]

Ya know I don't give two frickin hoots how the hell I spelled anything, this is just to show how much of a frickin paranoid perfectionist you are because F-U-all happens to be my last name *******!

And just for your info I DID read every post and not once did he LIE! (but I do have to keep in mind that you are a "paranoid" personality so let's just all assume he did lie right!).
And if you were able to read you would know this.
Oh my! I keep forgeting that we are dealing with a paranoid perfectionist! SORRY!
(I will try and keep this in mind).

Honey, you are the one who needs to see a therapist, and I think you are in denial of this. I don't frickin care if you are a therapist either (a pretty sorry ass one if you are), nobody's perfect and honey you sure the hell are not!

So if you are so dam iterested in this thread, get off your high horse, go back and re-read HIS posts and just show all of us where he lied. (and yes, I will use bold whenever the hell I feel like it!)
Oh and by the way, yes I read the other thread of his and he didn't lie anywhere there either!!
Why don't you look at the dates on the posts! Oh wait, I forgot, you can't read so that wouldn't work.

Look who is the one who always has to get the last word in!
The paranoid perfectionist!

 

[AmIUnreasonable]

Lmao

I wasnt going to post anymore but after reading about the "cheesehead" situation, I had too.

I am not cheesehead! Nor have I ever been a cheesehead! LOL But I do appreciate cheesehead standing up for me and I am sorry they got treated badly!

 

[AmIUnreasonable]

and for the record, since fuall is standing up for me also, thats not me either. LOL

 

[fuall]

I wasnt going to post anymore but after reading about the "cheesehead" situation, I had too.

I am not cheesehead! Nor have I ever been a cheesehead! LOL But I do appreciate cheesehead standing up for me and I am sorry they got treated badly!

Honey........................ nobody really thinks that you are "CHEESEHEAD" accept the wannabe therapist "paranoid perfectionist" that keeps posting here.

 

[AmIUnreasonable]

fuall,

Can you believe these morons!?! I was reading where I suppossedly lied. When I first started posting my question, my ex wasnt married. Then they got married. I didnt lie. Tell that wannabe therapist to show me where I lied. If they can prove I lied then I will bow down and kiss there.................feet!

 

[lonelyandsad]

knock it off mom,jeff is not thier dad!

ny-they should not pressure the kids to call their stepfather dad.HES NOT THIER FATHER,AND HAS NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO THEM.they should address him by his first name.tell your ex to stop pressuring the girls to call her new husband dad,hes not.