Yes. My always good friend of 20 years moved back to Florida 2 months after I left my husband in June of last year. We'd talked regularly before he moved back down. We had similar situations. His ex used to be abusive towards him she was an unmedicated bipolar pill adict which she also became after they were married because she had an injury that she milked for years for painkillers. And, engagement isn't a legal or not legal thing.. There are no laws stating whether you're allowed to promise to marry someone and get engaged before you can afford a divorce. Are there any other judgemental comments I need to justify to you or did you actually have advice or are you just a part of this forum because you get off on insulting and judging people for how you assume they live their lives?