rmet4nzkx said:
You were not faithful during your marriage if you were traveling to the UK to meet a man, did you meet him on the internet? Who paid for the ticket? You have nothing to claim against your ex.
You abandoned your children when you flew off to meet a man you had never met while you were still married. Your husband was acting within the law to move his children and file for divorce. Didn't you buy a round trip ticket? If you had, you would have been able to come home right away. If you had a job you would have had money for your needs, TX has plenty of places to work you didn't have to go to the UK to find work or a man to support you.
You have no right to put his telephone service in your name. If you wanted the children to call you, get them phone cards. It is no concern of yours who he talks to on the phone.
Your little list of your ex's deficits is meaningless.
The fact that there is a call from your number to UK before you went there is not proof that your Ex gave his blessing, it is proof of your adultery.
Usually the NCP (that's you) is required to carry the medical insurance and to pay child support, how much child support are you paying?
I moved into a place that had cable hooked up and no one was paying, they didn't bother to turn it off when the last tenants had moved more than a year before, often times these are left on. The cable company will not tell you the past customer's records, so it is not proof that it wasn't on already.
I could go on.......
You better look at reality.
First of all Yes I did meet him on the internet. I paid for the ticket. and i ahd a return ticket march 5 - 19, 2002. Next abandonment is a very very strong word. it means intentions of no contact. I phoned my children everyday while visiting. I did fly back to texas. To find the locks were changed and everything gone. HE WAS NOT LIVING AT MY HOME with our children had not been since November 2001.
I did not come back here just for work and support. I come back here because I was in a depressed state and i had no where to turn. I made a bad judgement something I have to live with. But fact is He looks like a hero to people. Believe this or not he begged me to go with gifts. said it was once in a lifetime chance to see the UK. "god as my witness on that one"
Phone service was provided because he didnt have the money to pay for it. Contact was great until he met his wife on the internet. In October 2004 - jan 2005 i barely got to speak to my children because he was on the line at my expense. I paid the bills.
He admitted he called the UK from his Cabinet Shop he owned. Not from our home phone.
cable Service provider did speak to me because I requested to know if service had ever been there. The rep said no, so there for he lied Service had not been provided at that address prior to his purchase of the home.
Since December 2002 i have paid $11,865.00 . I only have to pay " 250.00 per month but because he has failed to provide what the children need i have always made sure they are provided for.
I never once cheated on my husband during our marriage. there was a time that I could have , but the morals and honesty in my life put me in the right frame of mind. Just because i met a man doesnt mean I committed adulty. people can committ adultry with there eyes and their minds.
I think letting a women dance naked in your lap and you put money in her hand and you have a wife at home with babies. Now that is pretty darn sick.
But still I am the bad person.
If my house and children were still intacked when I flew home that is where I would of been on that day and still would be there.
i ahve admitted i should not have went until i was divorced, will never forgive myself for that.
