First, Squiaho90, glad you are doing well physically and thank you for updating us....it helps us learn.
Second, while there is some validity from another's post stating that attorneys cast a wide net to get money from whoever they can regardless of really thinking they have liability....it apples to a small minority of sheister, unethical, crappy lawyers. Naming a number of defendants is at times necessary to get to the truth while the particular defendant at first seems 'possibly' involved. This allows discovery, depositions and the sorting out of the facts and truth and gets people to talk who normally would 'stay out of it'. One MUST have a high index of suspicion and knowledge of how the real world of the hospital works while reading a medical record and often must read between the lines to find who did what and when. Thus, just about anyone who was in the room that night and responsible for your care, prescribed and/or administered and medication that night, responding to your emergency should be named if the lawyer is doing his job and you want the truth. Defendants can and should be dropped and/or turned into witnesses once confidence in the truth and where liability lie is attained.
Third, Squish you are not imagining things with your characterization of some of the 'experts' who respond on this board give 'advice' which regularly attacks the poster, his/her motives, his/her intelligence and lack of gratitude towards providers and then discourage or negate the ability to file legal action (without real basis). My view of the purpose for which people seek help here is to obtain accurate, unbiased opinions of their medical care (which may include pros and cons of the same issue) and a basic explanation of what must be present to meet the legal definition of malpractice...always with the caveat of consulting with an attorney. Many are vulnerable and desperate and are the last people who need ridicule and abuse from anyone.
Fourth, many who provide advice on this board genuinely attempt to help without being rude, condescending, judgmental, and authoritative without credentials or experience to do so, and do a great job in may opinion.....others have no business giving advice at all, also in my opinion. I and others do our best to be honest, courteous and accurate...just the way human beings should be all day long by common decency.