What is the name of your state?
Michigan
I currently have a temporary court order on Child Custody which states I have Joint Physical and Joint Legal custody for both of our kids, ages 7 and 11.
Our 2 kids have been going to a Private School their whole lives, my oldest is finishing up 5th grade. Tuition is currently close to what Child Support (Despite Joint Physical, I'm paying 'salary inequality???') is for me. In my spouses newest proposal, she has decided to NOT pay her share of Tuition, and instead 'compensate' me by buying 'All' the kids clothes instead?!!
I don't see how this stipulation could even be enforceable by FOC, much less what my incentive for actually accepting a deal like this would be? I've calculated future Tuition, factoring in cost of living adjustments, for the duration of the childrens remaining school years, and it's about $56,000, so half would be $28,000.
If our case goes to the judge, which my spouse vehemently wants to avoid, can the judge rule that since my wife says she can't afford Private School, that she doesn't have to pay for it or compensate me in any way, even if it was her idea to put them there, it's the only school the kids have ever gone to, and both kids are adamant about wanting to stay at the school???
If so, could it further mean that I could be in a situation for funding their entire private school education with no tangible/realistic negotiable compensation prior to the case going to the judge, or is this a real source of leverage for me?? Obviously, if the jugde would most likely rule the opposite than the aforementioned, and that the kids MUST stay in the private school regardless, then she would have to give up something of a little more tangible substance than her offer to 'buy all the kids clothes' from now on, right?
I just don't know the 'rules' when it comes to maintaining Private School in the kids lives when one Spouse is going to claim they can't afford it, but everyone else involved wants it to continue, and I'm willing to pay my share or all, provided I'm compensated a whole lot better.
Thanks,
bd
Michigan
I currently have a temporary court order on Child Custody which states I have Joint Physical and Joint Legal custody for both of our kids, ages 7 and 11.
Our 2 kids have been going to a Private School their whole lives, my oldest is finishing up 5th grade. Tuition is currently close to what Child Support (Despite Joint Physical, I'm paying 'salary inequality???') is for me. In my spouses newest proposal, she has decided to NOT pay her share of Tuition, and instead 'compensate' me by buying 'All' the kids clothes instead?!!
I don't see how this stipulation could even be enforceable by FOC, much less what my incentive for actually accepting a deal like this would be? I've calculated future Tuition, factoring in cost of living adjustments, for the duration of the childrens remaining school years, and it's about $56,000, so half would be $28,000.
If our case goes to the judge, which my spouse vehemently wants to avoid, can the judge rule that since my wife says she can't afford Private School, that she doesn't have to pay for it or compensate me in any way, even if it was her idea to put them there, it's the only school the kids have ever gone to, and both kids are adamant about wanting to stay at the school???
If so, could it further mean that I could be in a situation for funding their entire private school education with no tangible/realistic negotiable compensation prior to the case going to the judge, or is this a real source of leverage for me?? Obviously, if the jugde would most likely rule the opposite than the aforementioned, and that the kids MUST stay in the private school regardless, then she would have to give up something of a little more tangible substance than her offer to 'buy all the kids clothes' from now on, right?
I just don't know the 'rules' when it comes to maintaining Private School in the kids lives when one Spouse is going to claim they can't afford it, but everyone else involved wants it to continue, and I'm willing to pay my share or all, provided I'm compensated a whole lot better.
Thanks,
bd