marine_wife_17 said:Like I said if you read the whole thing my mother has a bed here for my daughter and if he will not buy one then he can have this one.
have you told him this?
then where would the child sleep when at your mom's? with you
marine_wife_17 said:Like I said if you read the whole thing my mother has a bed here for my daughter and if he will not buy one then he can have this one.
I don't disagree with you ...but the bottom line is what is best for your daughter. I agree that it is inappropriate for your child to be sleeping in the same bed w/bd and his gf...so bite the bullet and get a cheap bed at a tag sale or used furniture store. Don't let your resentment of this guy overshadow your love and concern for your daughter.marine_wife_17 said:She is too big for a play pen and she would tip it over if she were in it. I am jsut so sick of having to be the one to provide everything. I had to get him all of his car seats and have to bring everything for her until he stopped giving it back. He is an adult and needs to act like one and take responsiblity for her and get her a bed and make sure she has everything she needs. I should not have to provide it for two homes. He does not pay child support so why should I be responsible for paying for everything that he needs in his house for her. Even if he was paying I should not have to buy all of that stuff.
AND HE HAS TOLD YOU THAT THERE IS NO ROOM FOR A BED! Jesus Christ, woman - what are you going to do when you have SERIOUS parenting issues with this guy? This is petty crap - take it from people who have BTDT. But if this is a hill you want to die on - have at it. You've got another 15 1/2 years to go and it ain't gonna get better at the rate you're going.marine_wife_17 said:stealth will you listen to what i said. MY MOTHER HAS A BED AT HER HOUSE THAT HE CAN USE. SO I WILL GIVE HIM THAT ONE IF HE WILL NOT BUY ONE. So can you stop talking about the sleeping arrangement and I am not going to degrade my daughter to sleeping on the floor because the idiot will not buy her a bed.
OMG! In the same room?!?!?! How, how, how..... *shocking*!bleulaluna said:Well, I guess by those standards I 'degrade' my SKs every weekend. SS has an awesome car bed and he sleeps in it on school nights, but he LOVES to camp out on the family room floor every weekend. Begs me nightly to sleep in there. When SD comes over EOW they both camp out in the family room on the floor. She doesn't live with us, and doesn't have a bed here. She could sleep in her brother's bed, but she doesn't want to, she wants to camp out in the family room. Hell, they could both sleep on couches. But they don't want to they have so much fun!
You go tell a judge that. And then come back and tell us what the response was. I'll say it again - this is NOT a hill worth dying on.marine_wife_17 said:As far as room for a bed. He can make room.
Whatever you do, don't tell the OP that my kids sleep in THE SAME BED!!!!! I just recently got tired of watching them try to cram themselves into the same single bed when there were two in the room, and moved in one double bed. They sleep like lil angels. And sometimes, they sleep on the livingroom floor. And once, my 5 year old crawled in bed with me and my fiance. AND when they spend the night at gramma's house, they sometimes SLEEP IN THE SAME BED WITH MY MOM!!!!!!stealth2 said:OMG! In the same room?!?!?! How, how, how..... *shocking*!
marine_wife_17 said:There is a lot more to it then just the bed so this hill is just getting biggeer and I don't care what you think but this is my daughter and I am willing to fight for her. We already have a class d felony in the works and the warrant should be ready this week. So we are moving up the ladder.