Jerry Springer, move over...wow!!!

[Ohiogal]

Thanks.

Does this mean if she is pregnant with my child. I have to wait till birth to determine paternity???

Umm YES! You have to wait until birth.

 

[LdiJ]

Dude, you first started coming to this board in 2006, and at that time you and your son's mother had been split up for 2 years. You have also stated that your son is 5 years old.

You have a basically 50/50 timeshare with your son, according to your posts.

Therefore, you have already been through all the processes of establishing paternity/custody/parenting time and CS regarding an infant. So why are you acting as though you have no knowledge regarding your "rights"? You have already been there, you know what to expect.

On top of that....since you already know what to expect...why in the world did you get her pregnant again? Why in the world were you engaging in activity with her that could result in pregnancy? Did it ever occur to you that the fact that grandma acted so stupid at the ball game was that maybe, just maybe she is mad that you got her daughter pregnant again?...and maybe, just maybe that has something to do with why your son's mother doesn't want to communicate with you right now?

 

[Ohiogal]

That's just it, I don't know. That's why I came here in the first place. Do you know how to run a business??? I guarantee not, and you would pay for my services and I would treat you differently. I give a lot of advise on business on another forum without cost and I would never be so rude.


carbro

Yes I know how to run a business. A very successful at that. Pay me and I will treat you a bit differently. I will at least call you by your name rather than Carbro. You can do whatever you want. No one IS being RUDE.

 

[Ohiogal]

What rights do I have if she wants an abortion?



Carbro

NONE. Her body her choice.

 

[Ohiogal]

Dude, you first started coming to this board in 2006, and at that time you and your son's mother had been split up for 2 years. You have also stated that your son is 5 years old.

You have a basically 50/50 timeshare with your son, according to your posts.

Therefore, you have already been through all the processes of establishing paternity/custody/parenting time and CS regarding an infant. So why are you acting as though you have no knowledge regarding your "rights"? You have already been there, you know what to expect.

On top of that....since you already know what to expect...why in the world did you get her pregnant again? Why in the world were you engaging in activity with her that could result in pregnancy? Did it ever occur to you that the fact that grandma acted so stupid at the ball game was that maybe, just maybe she is mad that you got her daughter pregnant again?...and maybe, just maybe that has something to do with why your son's mother doesn't want to communicate with you right now?

Damn, LD why are you getting so logical with him? I mean really. You expect him to understand logic?

 

[LdiJ]

Damn, LD why are you getting so logical with him? I mean really. You expect him to understand logic?

LOL...I figure it can't hurt to try.

 

[stealth2]

Given your reactions on this thread, I'm seeing more clearly why Grandma may have been avoiding any interaction with you when picking the child up - as well as why she reacted as she did when you accosted her.

Seriously - you've been divorced for 2+ years. Why are you having sex with her? Apparently you now what can happen when you do and didn't take adequate precautions. So now there are consequences to your actions - which have nothing to do with your gender, but everything with biology.

If your situation mirrors Jerry Springer's show, you've had a mighty fine hand in landing it there.

 

[Ohiogal]

Given your reactions on this thread, I'm seeing more clearly why Grandma may have been avoiding any interaction with you when picking the child up - as well as why she reacted as she did when you accosted her.

Seriously - you've been divorced for 2+ years. Why are you having sex with her? Apparently you now what can happen when you do and didn't take adequate precautions. So now there are consequences to your actions - which have nothing to do with your gender, but everything with biology.

If your situation mirrors Jerry Springer's show, you've had a mighty fine hand in landing it there.

Also, he bad mouths mom in one breath and THEN states he's boinking her. Jeez. Someone using her to get his jollies? No good can come out of this from trifling with someone else.

 

[carbro]

Dude, you first started coming to this board in 2006, and at that time you and your son's mother had been split up for 2 years. You have also stated that your son is 5 years old.

You have a basically 50/50 timeshare with your son, according to your posts.

Therefore, you have already been through all the processes of establishing paternity/custody/parenting time and CS regarding an infant. So why are you acting as though you have no knowledge regarding your "rights"? You have already been there, you know what to expect.

On top of that....since you already know what to expect...why in the world did you get her pregnant again? Why in the world were you engaging in activity with her that could result in pregnancy? Did it ever occur to you that the fact that grandma acted so stupid at the ball game was that maybe, just maybe she is mad that you got her daughter pregnant again?...and maybe, just maybe that has something to do with why your son's mother doesn't want to communicate with you right now?

Dude/Dudet,

First, grandma didn't know.

Second, I was asking about the here and now, not about custody. I wanted to know my rights.

Thanks dude.

 

[stealth2]

And, in reading his past threads, he's actually been divorced 4+ years.

 

[carbro]

Given your reactions on this thread, I'm seeing more clearly why Grandma may have been avoiding any interaction with you when picking the child up - as well as why she reacted as she did when you accosted her.

Seriously - you've been divorced for 2+ years. Why are you having sex with her? Apparently you now what can happen when you do and didn't take adequate precautions. So now there are consequences to your actions - which have nothing to do with your gender, but everything with biology.

If your situation mirrors Jerry Springer's show, you've had a mighty fine hand in landing it there.

I agree.

carbro

 

[LdiJ]

Dude/Dudet,

First, grandma didn't know.

Second, I was asking about the here and now, not about custody. I wanted to know my rights.

Thanks dude.

You don't have any. You won't have any until the baby is born and you go through the necessary steps in court.

 

[stealth2]

Dude/Dudet,

First, grandma didn't know.

Second, I was asking about the here and now, not about custody. I wanted to know my rights.

Thanks dude.

You have no way of knowing what Grandma did or didn't know.

 

[carbro]

Damn, LD why are you getting so logical with him? I mean really. You expect him to understand logic?

Hey ohiogal,

Some people come to this forum to get answers, others (like yourself) enjoy sitting behind a computer and being "big" on a free forum.

I ask that you reframe from any responses other than to the question at hand.



Thanks.

 

[carbro]

You don't have any. You won't have any until the baby is born and you go through the necessary steps in court.

Thanks

Carbro