Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!
She said "with certainty an episiotomy would not have prevented the tear."
She also said that there was no reason for her to be there and the midwife could have done the episiotomy without her. ....
The grandma heard nurses say during the delivery "shes.prob sitting at home sipping her coffee"
The.modwife said she had been paged 2 hrs prior to the birth.
The mother is torn from a scale of 1-4 at a 3 according to the Dr....prob.. means a 4.
She (Dr) said she was a million percent better. I kept my mouth shut but thought then she should be running circles around grandma then.
Wants to see her again next week. I think the mother is going to try to see a different OBGYN.
THANK you ALL so much for helping me help this young mother and grandma!
Also sorry for offending ANYONE!
I may have further questions so if this thread can stay open?