mahstmacat
Active Member
So many points! As far as I know, he was only selling this one thing. That's what I meant -- I really don't want to see it listed on FB marketplace again as an authentic product. DWR could stop one person, but stopping an entire Chinese manufacturing outfit is much more involved. But I guess I can't stop him from trying to misrepresent it and sell it in the future...
As I've been reading, we do have to do mediation first...I really hope it's not a sophomoric "a negotiation is successful if no one is happy" kind of nonsense. He misrepresented the item, repeatedly claimed it was from DWR; I learned the truth and want a full refund and want him to take the chair back. That seems fair to me.
Maybe I'll try to get a signed statement from the DWR rep instead of bringing her in? to avoid any of the above potential issues, although it sounds like maybe it doesn't matter (I was just thinking that payment would be a courtesy since she'd have to take time off of work to show up personally, didn't think about the implications! should have though...). That way I could present the statement with the photo of the ad as proof. Along with a printout of our message conversation.
I am going to write the seller again tomorrow morning. He will have had several hours to reply. I'm thinking of saying that this is my 'bona fide' attempt at working out a solution, which is required by Multnomah County before I can file a claim, and that if we haven't met or have a firm date to meet by Tuesday morning, I will be filing a claim? Or is that too many cards to play?...should I just say the first part, before the 'if' clause?
*Thank you so much for your help.* It's shameful that someone who has as significant a position as he has (and I confirmed it by a google search--he's who he says he is) resorts to deceit to sell a fake chair on fb marketplace...really he should be above that. That's one reason I trusted him. I mean, I'd expect higher-level white collar crimes or something, not lying to sell a chair! I know, no accounting for individual quirks...
As I've been reading, we do have to do mediation first...I really hope it's not a sophomoric "a negotiation is successful if no one is happy" kind of nonsense. He misrepresented the item, repeatedly claimed it was from DWR; I learned the truth and want a full refund and want him to take the chair back. That seems fair to me.
Maybe I'll try to get a signed statement from the DWR rep instead of bringing her in? to avoid any of the above potential issues, although it sounds like maybe it doesn't matter (I was just thinking that payment would be a courtesy since she'd have to take time off of work to show up personally, didn't think about the implications! should have though...). That way I could present the statement with the photo of the ad as proof. Along with a printout of our message conversation.
I am going to write the seller again tomorrow morning. He will have had several hours to reply. I'm thinking of saying that this is my 'bona fide' attempt at working out a solution, which is required by Multnomah County before I can file a claim, and that if we haven't met or have a firm date to meet by Tuesday morning, I will be filing a claim? Or is that too many cards to play?...should I just say the first part, before the 'if' clause?
*Thank you so much for your help.* It's shameful that someone who has as significant a position as he has (and I confirmed it by a google search--he's who he says he is) resorts to deceit to sell a fake chair on fb marketplace...really he should be above that. That's one reason I trusted him. I mean, I'd expect higher-level white collar crimes or something, not lying to sell a chair! I know, no accounting for individual quirks...