Step-parent adoption

[fairisfair]

OP has STILL not told us WHY she doesn't know who daddy is.
Well, since we've concluded process of elimination isn't going to happen, that shows that either she slept with way too many, she was sh!tfaced when she got busy with a complete stranger, OR again, she just doesn't want to name who Daddy is so her new hubby can adopt.

or maybe, since you aren't an attorney, hers or otherwise, she doesn't expect legal advice from you and it is none of your business. You need to spend your time deciding how you are going to wear your hair at YOUR next court date. Remember how your pony tail shakes, you don't want that to happen again. There now you guys have somebody new to slam on....

 

[bononos]

or maybe, since you aren't an attorney, hers or otherwise, she doesn't expect legal advice from you and it is none of your business. You need to spend your time deciding how you are going to wear your hair at YOUR next court date. Remember how your pony tail shakes, you don't want that to happen again. There now you guys have somebody new to slam on....

Well, she shouldn't post then if it's no one's business.
Congratulations!
You've just made my ignore list.
It's sad...
This child will never know their father because of the mother's actions.

 

[fairisfair]

Well, she shouldn't post then if it's no one's business.
Congratulations!
You've just made my ignore list.
It's sad...
This child will never know their father because of the mother's actions.

Apparently I didn't "make your ignore list" fast enough for you to ignore this post huh???????? darn it. LOL

 

[bononos]

Troll Alert!

 

[fairisfair]

Troll Alert!

Talk about a troll, you have been posting on this board for over a year, never with any valid information, always personal observations, and blah blah blah, you should focus on your own issues, you seem to have enough of them. There are senior members, like senior jdge, rmet, and others who offer wonderful advice , and then there are senior members like YOU, who get kudos for typing. oh yeah what about that ignore thing, I was kind of looking forward to that.

 

[bononos]

Trolling Again!
I wish the ignore would take your name away too, not just your posts.

 

[klmgb]

I'm not a lawyer, or even know the law very well. I just like getting on this site because most of you are hillarious, and sometimes I learn something. But I do have a question about this situation. Is the first husband on the birth certificate as the father? Can/will this change the birth certificate.? And when they file for adoption, isn't the court going to want to know who the biological father is to try and contact him?

Kepp up the good work. At least a laugh a day.

 

[ceara19]

I'm not a lawyer, or even know the law very well. I just like getting on this site because most of you are hillarious, and sometimes I learn something. But I do have a question about this situation. Is the first husband on the birth certificate as the father? Can/will this change the birth certificate.? And when they file for adoption, isn't the court going to want to know who the biological father is to try and contact him?

Kepp up the good work. At least a laugh a day.

The judge will definately want to know who bio dad is or could be. The OP's excuse that "it's nobody's business" won't fly with the judge.

 

[AlohaLawGal]

I have read this thread and since I have a similar situation,I thought I might hopefully offer some insight for Nita's sake; not that it would matter to those who have been judgemental. For those who have offered words of encouragement, kudos to you.
I will state now that my daughter is the result of a rape (with the use of date rape drug at a military function for families of deployed soldiers) while my now ex husband and I were apart due to his assignment HE suprised me and came home early and we had marital relations. I was devastated and wasn't exactly sure what had happened so I did not say anything to my then ex husband about the possible rape. The nightmares happened shortly after ex returned but we couldnt' figure out why I was having them. Does this mean I am a horrible person and deserved it. NO. and I do not know who the bio is, only that he was a soldier at the military function. It was assumed for years that my ex was the bio father because of us having had marital relations. When he had them for visitation his new wife (PITA =pain in the a$$) decided my daughter was too much to handle and put my daughter in a psych ward. Pita had a dna test ordered and unfortunately Dad consented to it under the advise of the psych doctor because Pita told the doc that dad had no history of any sort of ailments, illnesses, or "negative medical history" causing Pysch doc said "she may not be yours. This is contrary of legal father's (my ex)medical family history (grandma had polio; cousin has cerebral palsy and his father has ptsd (my daughter is special needs and it probably stems from my being born without a thyroid gland). Dna prooves my ex is not bio and he now has distanced himself from her.

I am now remarried to a wonderful man who wants to adopt her and be a dad to her. Not that I should have to explain any of that to any judgemental individuals on here either.LEGAL FATHER has consented to the adoption.

Some of you will be judgemental on me and that's ok. Judgement will be that much harsher on you. Not all situations need the nitty gritty personal clarification some of you are asking for. Some only need basic answers on the basic questions that are asked. Luckily for me I don't have to worry about the prejudgemental statements most of you will provide. Nita, feel free to pm me and maybe I can help you out. I am doing the adoption Pro Se.

 

[fairisfair]

and huge KUDOS to you for slamming these oh so righteous posters right back in their chairs. Good luck to you both, and to Nita! And don't worry, they will leave you alone, that would look less than holier than thou!

 

[bononos]

I have read this thread and since I have a similar situation,I thought I might hopefully offer some insight for Nita's sake; not that it would matter to those who have been judgemental. For those who have offered words of encouragement, kudos to you.
I will state now that my daughter is the result of a rape (with the use of date rape drug at a military function for families of deployed soldiers) while my now ex husband and I were apart due to his assignment HE suprised me and came home early and we had marital relations. I was devastated and wasn't exactly sure what had happened so I did not say anything to my then ex husband about the possible rape. The nightmares happened shortly after ex returned but we couldnt' figure out why I was having them. Does this mean I am a horrible person and deserved it. NO. and I do not know who the bio is, only that he was a soldier at the military function. It was assumed for years that my ex was the bio father because of us having had marital relations. When he had them for visitation his new wife (PITA =pain in the a$$) decided my daughter was too much to handle and put my daughter in a psych ward. Pita had a dna test ordered and unfortunately Dad consented to it under the advise of the psych doctor because Pita told the doc that dad had no history of any sort of ailments, illnesses, or "negative medical history" causing Pysch doc said "she may not be yours. This is contrary of legal father's (my ex)medical family history (grandma had polio; cousin has cerebral palsy and his father has ptsd (my daughter is special needs and it probably stems from my being born without a thyroid gland). Dna prooves my ex is not bio and he now has distanced himself from her.

I am now remarried to a wonderful man who wants to adopt her and be a dad to her. Not that I should have to explain any of that to any judgemental individuals on here either.LEGAL FATHER has consented to the adoption.

Some of you will be judgemental on me and that's ok. Judgement will be that much harsher on you. Not all situations need the nitty gritty personal clarification some of you are asking for. Some only need basic answers on the basic questions that are asked. Luckily for me I don't have to worry about the prejudgemental statements most of you will provide. Nita, feel free to pm me and maybe I can help you out. I am doing the adoption Pro Se.

OP has not in any way said, refrenced, or insuinated she was raped, or of course, our hearts would go out to her.
I symphatize with what you have gone through.
I do not with the OP, she made her bed...many times, now she must lie in it.

 

[fairisfair]

OP has not in any way said, refrenced, or insuinated she was raped, or of course, our hearts would go out to her.
I symphatize with what you have gone through.
I do not with the OP, she made her bed...many times, now she must lie in it.

your heart is full of the same thing you are, cr_p!!! Really, who do you think you are? you know hardly anything about this poster and you will notice that after your constant bashing the OP hasn't even returned to this thread. Go type on one of your other thousand wah wah poor me, going to court, been to court, can't find the truck, possible murder, blah blah blah threads. It has GOT to be time for your meds. And, no, I would never waste my time following you around on this site, it is just IMPOSSIBLE to find a thread where you have not insinuated yourself.

 

[bononos]

Hay, this troll must be one of Kelly's 20 some kids!

 

[fairisfair]

Hay, this troll must be one of Kelly's 20 some kids!

only 1121 posts of blah blah blah??? Keep typing, I am sure you will hit 1300 by the end of the day.

 

[bononos]

"Skanks of a feather flock together"
Only a skank like you would continue to post when they know they've been ignored.