Step-parent adoption

[bononos]

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[fairisfair]

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Sooooooooo************** you are saying that you have faced a similar issue as this poster**************..now that is a hoot.

ROTFLMAO oh and by the way

ignore:

1: refuse to acknowledge; [syn: disregard, snub, cut] 2: bar from attention or consideration; [syn: dismiss, disregard, brush aside, brush off, discount, push aside] 3: fail to notice [ant: notice] 4: give little or no attention to; "Disregard the errors" [syn: neglect, disregard] 5: be ignorant of or in the dark about [ant: know]

Obviously you are talking about that #5 kind of ignore huh?

 

[bononos]

I'm sure whatever you wrote was another pointless post from someone who has been a part of this site for....hummmmm**************.WOW...42 whole days!

 

[AlohaLawGal]

FairisFair,

You seem to be rather level headed. Do not stoop to such low tactics and word play. The individuals who enjoy bashing people while assuming they know all the facts obviously have nothing better to do with their lives. They fling insults and attempt to attack individuals without truly even paying attention to the question that is asked. They would rather place judgement.
I have read many of your posts, you appear to be much more of an intelligent person than to need to engage in a battle of wits with unarmed individuals.

I do hope to hear from Nita as I feel I might be able to offer her some insight to her situation. The best way we can help others is to take what we have learned and share it with someone else. Helping is not being judgemental, insulting or sarcastic. Helping is being a compassionate individual enough to step outside of your own prejudgements of a person or situation and see what you can do to help make life better for those around us. I will be praying that God will soften the hearts of those here who have been judgemental of Nita and her situation and realize that they could have helped make a child's life better by simply answering her question instead of laying judgement and insulting her.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

FairisFair,

You seem to be rather level headed. Do not stoop to such low tactics and word play. The individuals who enjoy bashing people while assuming they know all the facts obviously have nothing better to do with their lives. They fling insults and attempt to attack individuals without truly even paying attention to the question that is asked. They would rather place judgement.
I have read many of your posts, you appear to be much more of an intelligent person than to need to engage in a battle of wits with unarmed individuals.

I do hope to hear from Nita as I feel I might be able to offer her some insight to her situation. The best way we can help others is to take what we have learned and share it with someone else. Helping is not being judgemental, insulting or sarcastic. Helping is being a compassionate individual enough to step outside of your own prejudgements of a person or situation and see what you can do to help make life better for those around us. I will be praying that God will soften the hearts of those here who have been judgemental of Nita and her situation and realize that they could have helped make a child's life better by simply answering her question instead of laying judgement and insulting her.

Good God, Give it a rest.

 

[bononos]

FairisFair,

You seem to be rather level headed. Do not stoop to such low tactics and word play. The individuals who enjoy bashing people while assuming they know all the facts obviously have nothing better to do with their lives. They fling insults and attempt to attack individuals without truly even paying attention to the question that is asked. They would rather place judgement.
I have read many of your posts, you appear to be much more of an intelligent person than to need to engage in a battle of wits with unarmed individuals.

I do hope to hear from Nita as I feel I might be able to offer her some insight to her situation. The best way we can help others is to take what we have learned and share it with someone else. Helping is not being judgemental, insulting or sarcastic. Helping is being a compassionate individual enough to step outside of your own prejudgements of a person or situation and see what you can do to help make life better for those around us. I will be praying that God will soften the hearts of those here who have been judgemental of Nita and her situation and realize that they could have helped make a child's life better by simply answering her question instead of laying judgement and insulting her.

Well, keep telling OP what she wants to hear.
When she ends up in lots and lots of trouble for paternity fraud, maybe you can give her a big fat, hug, while we'll be saying, "I told you so".

Nita screwed her child's life up by not keeping track of her bed buddies or by lying about knowing the father. So, thanks to her, her child will never know their true father. Nita being honest or tracking down the father is what will make this poor child's life better.

Nita's situation is in no way like yours.
She made poor decisions and is going to continue to make them by her choices of action here.

Why do you feel no sympathy for the father who has no idea he has this precious child?

 

[fairisfair]

Thank you AlohaLawGal, I feel admonished. Sometimes they just get me going with their self righteous slamming. And, I am ashamed to admit it, but it also just makes me laugh when they respond back and I can almost see the spit flying. I hope that Nita will respond to you, even though her situation may well be different than yours she came here for help, not more abuse.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Sometimes they just get me going with their self righteous slamming.

Pot meet kettle.

 

[bononos]

Sometimes they just get me going with their self righteous slamming.

Pot meet kettle.

Touché

 

[fairisfair]

Sometimes they just get me going with their self righteous slamming.

Pot meet kettle.

Okay, game on---- I challenge you to find anywhere on this site where I have ever given an abusive, condescending, rambling, raving, diatribe on someone else's situation, I told the nosy neighbor on another thread to shut her curtains and her mouth**************...but I didn't call her a nosy slut. That my dear is what makes the pot much different than the kettle. Come on Bananas, can't do better than hitch on her post???

Forgive me AlohaLawGal, for I have sinned.

 

[shell007]

Okay, game on---- I challenge you to find anywhere on this site where I have ever given an abusive, condescending, rambling, raving, diatribe on someone else's situation, I told the nosy neighbor on another thread to shut her curtains and her mouth**************...but I didn't call her a nosy slut. That my dear is what makes the pot much different than the kettle. Come on Bananas, can't do better than hitch on her post???

Forgive me AlohaLawGal, for I have sinned.

Is there some reason why you can't "take this outside"??? or at least PM???

 

[bononos]

Is there some reason why you can't "take this outside"??? or at least PM???

You'll be happy to know, I'm done wasting my time with idjits (again, thanks for that word)!

 

[shell007]

Bononos:

I think the quotes are all messed up around here. I am the one who said "take it outside".

BTY: My hubby uses that word all of the time, but I never quite knew the correct way to spell it. Thanx.

 

[AlohaLawGal]

FairisFair,

No need to ask my forgiveness.I am far from perfect and it is not my place to judge you. I was just giving you some insightful guidance as I felt in your eagerness to stand up for Nita you may have been sidetracked by the unnecessary insults being flung around. Anyone can fling "stones" (insults) on others but better make sure they that before they cast those stones, they themselves are not living in glass houses.

As I said, I am far from perfect, but I do my best to live a Godly life and I don't stand for others being presumptious without knowing all the facts of someones situation. There is a child in this situation that is innocent regardless of the actions of any adult in this child's life. I think it was wrong to place judgement and blame on someone when all she was doing was seeking advice on how to proceed with adoption, something that will more th an likely improve the life of this child and give her stability. I pray that anyone who made verbal attacks on Nita gets a clear conscience and can peacefully sleep knowing that their hurtful words may have possibly impacted negatively on the life of an innocent child.

If anyone on here is a representative of the legal field, and is flinging insults on people they don't truly know anything about, it would stand to reason as to why our legal system is the shape it is in.

I am thankful and appreciative FairisFair, that you felt the need to ask my forgiveness. It shows you are of good character. May God bless you today.

 

[shell007]

FairisFair,

No need to ask my forgiveness.I am far from perfect and it is not my place to judge you. I was just giving you some insightful guidance as I felt in your eagerness to stand up for Nita you may have been sidetracked by the unnecessary insults being flung around. Anyone can fling "stones" (insults) on others but better make sure they that before they cast those stones, they themselves are not living in glass houses.

As I said, I am far from perfect, but I do my best to live a Godly life and I don't stand for others being presumptious without knowing all the facts of someones situation. There is a child in this situation that is innocent regardless of the actions of any adult in this child's life. I think it was wrong to place judgement and blame on someone when all she was doing was seeking advice on how to proceed with adoption, something that will more th an likely improve the life of this child and give her stability. I pray that anyone who made verbal attacks on Nita gets a clear conscience and can peacefully sleep knowing that their hurtful words may have possibly impacted negatively on the life of an innocent child.

If anyone on here is a representative of the legal field, and is flinging insults on people they don't truly know anything about, it would stand to reason as to why our legal system is the shape it is in.

I am thankful and appreciative FairisFair, that you felt the need to ask my forgiveness. It shows you are of good character. May God bless you today.

OH brother!!!