NYCTeacher
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
My ex lives on the way between my work and my home, I call our daughter everyday at 4pm(When i get off work) to see what she's doing and if she wants me to come over. So MOST days(more then 4 times a week) i stop over my ex's after work and spend time with our daughter, either working on homework, talking about her day, going to the park....It's really just extra 'facetime' i spend with our daughter everyday...I've been doing this for about a year.
This hasn't been a problem so far, but i'm not niave enough to believe that my ex will never MAKE it a problem and this IS time outside of my parenting time schedule....
So my question, Legally, is this ok to do?
And
If ex decides she no longer wants me to just stop over unannounced, is a year+ worth of doing this enough to establish status quo so i can have it added to the parenting plan? (i.e. father will pick up daughter from 4:30 to 7:30pm for dinner 4 times a week)
If not, what should i be doing differently so that I can have this time added to the parenting plan, so that she can't suddenly cut off my time with our daughter?
My ex lives on the way between my work and my home, I call our daughter everyday at 4pm(When i get off work) to see what she's doing and if she wants me to come over. So MOST days(more then 4 times a week) i stop over my ex's after work and spend time with our daughter, either working on homework, talking about her day, going to the park....It's really just extra 'facetime' i spend with our daughter everyday...I've been doing this for about a year.
This hasn't been a problem so far, but i'm not niave enough to believe that my ex will never MAKE it a problem and this IS time outside of my parenting time schedule....
So my question, Legally, is this ok to do?
And
If ex decides she no longer wants me to just stop over unannounced, is a year+ worth of doing this enough to establish status quo so i can have it added to the parenting plan? (i.e. father will pick up daughter from 4:30 to 7:30pm for dinner 4 times a week)
If not, what should i be doing differently so that I can have this time added to the parenting plan, so that she can't suddenly cut off my time with our daughter?
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