wife "babysits"

[Proserpina]

Someone make it go away. Someone more powerful than me, because I've tried. Please, make it go away....

There, there, AT. Let Aunty Pro make you some hot buttered crumpets and a nice cup of tea (with whiskey in it, if you want).


It'll make it allllll feel better.

 

[cbg]

Are you so selfish that you will not allow your child one moment to be happy in your absence?

Sandy, honey, haven't you read the posting hx? The answer is an unqualified YES.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

My son, the NCP, got even MORE time with his daughter because his X did stupid things like you are talking about. Yup. MORE TIME. Think about it.

 

[ecmst12]

When you STOP FEEDING THE TROLL, it goes away.

 

[lilmansmom]

"wife" baby sits

My exs "wife" has put my son in harms way. I got a phone call stating my son was riding the bike they got him in the street and with no helmet. is this sufficient enough to use in court? what if some car were to hit him? what if someone kidnapped him? since she was no where in sight "watching my son"

Also, I believe his "wife" might be a possible sex offender. and she continues to post pictures of my son on facebook. i dont feel comfortable her posting pictures of my son online for everyone to view. i have spoke with my son and he says she takes pictures of him constantly. they are supposed to have 6 weeks during summer, how is that going to be fair for my son to have friends sleep over with a sex offender? any papers my attorney and me can bring to court stopping this?

 

[Ohiogal]

My exs "wife" has put my son in harms way. I got a phone call stating my son was riding the bike they got him in the street and with no helmet. is this sufficient enough to use in court? what if some car were to hit him? what if someone kidnapped him? since she was no where in sight "watching my son"

Also, I believe his "wife" might be a possible sex offender. and she continues to post pictures of my son on facebook. i dont feel comfortable her posting pictures of my son online for everyone to view. i have spoke with my son and he says she takes pictures of him constantly. they are supposed to have 6 weeks during summer, how is that going to be fair for my son to have friends sleep over with a sex offender? any papers my attorney and me can bring to court stopping this?

Quite frankly if someone kidnapped him he wouldn't have to deal with your perverse sense of parenthood and it might be better for him. Quite frankly kids use to ride bikes ALL the time without helmets and survived quite frankly. You survived. Though that is not saying much. How many times did you fall and slam your head off the concrete (that might explain a lot about your behavior).
A possible sex offender? Really? Based on what? She doesn't like you and likes your son? Hmmmm... Is she posting NUDE photos of your son? Is she convicted of a crime? Or are you just having fantasies about it due to slamming your head off the concrete from not wearing a bike helmet?

 

[ecmst12]

You're still feeding it.

 

[lilmansmom]

Quite frankly if someone kidnapped him he wouldn't have to deal with your perverse sense of parenthood and it might be better for him. Quite frankly kids use to ride bikes ALL the time without helmets and survived quite frankly. You survived. Though that is not saying much. How many times did you fall and slam your head off the concrete (that might explain a lot about your behavior).
A possible sex offender? Really? Based on what? She doesn't like you and likes your son? Hmmmm... Is she posting NUDE photos of your son? Is she convicted of a crime? Or are you just having fantasies about it due to slamming your head off the concrete from not wearing a bike helmet?

No i believe she is a possible sex offender because she was with a man who is under the legal age.. i have expressed i dont appreciate pictures of my son being posted for everyone to see. how many sickos are out there? my attorney has sent a request in that during his 6 weeks of summer i get to have the weekends with him so my son can at least have friends over to stay the night.

Also my attorney called and made the crazy notion that my son has told them i make my son go to school to get in trouble. i believe they are lying to their attorney and saying my son is telling them stuff. would they make my son go to court to testify? they are only getting my son stuck in the middle. my sons grades have dropped dramatically since his visits and i have documents from his teachers about his behavior but my ex is saying my son told them its me

 

[MichaCA]

I'll say again what I have said to you before.
By getting so upset, being hypervigilant about son's time at dads house, interrogating son about his time at dads, pumping your son to dislike his stepmom, YOU are hurting your child. You are putting your child in the middle of your conflict with dad. Do you want to raise a healthy, well-adjusted child? Stop putting conflict in his life. Get a therapist...vent to the therapist. You REALLY need support.

Are there any parenting classes where you live? Many places now offer parenting classes on how to parent with an ex. What about taking a coparenting class with dad? If you are who I remember, and your ex is who I remember, my take is he doesn't want the conflict...he just wants to live his life, be a good father, and move on. I suspect if you and dad did some coparent counseling together, or a class, you might be suprised at his willingness to discuss (vs being dictated to) parenting issues. If you keep focused on the conflict, it will always be there for your son. I promise.

Also you are putting your son 'in the middle' by asserting your rules on him at his dads house. Stop being pushy and demanding. IF you continue having concerns (and no helmet does NOT rise to the level...nor does paranoia about step mom being a molester), ask for a GAL.

(sorry folks...I'm sure some of you are disappointed....just a tiny tiny hope mom will get this is not about her)

 

[lilmansmom]

I'll say again what I have said to you before.
By getting so upset, being hypervigilant about son's time at dads house, interrogating son about his time at dads, pumping your son to dislike his stepmom, YOU are hurting your child. You are putting your child in the middle of your conflict with dad. Do you want to raise a healthy, well-adjusted child? Stop putting conflict in his life. Get a therapist...vent to the therapist. You REALLY need support.

Are there any parenting classes where you live? Many places now offer parenting classes on how to parent with an ex. What about taking a coparenting class with dad? If you are who I remember, and your ex is who I remember, my take is he doesn't want the conflict...he just wants to live his life, be a good father, and move on. I suspect if you and dad did some coparent counseling together, or a class, you might be suprised at his willingness to discuss (vs being dictated to) parenting issues. If you keep focused on the conflict, it will always be there for your son. I promise.

Also you are putting your son 'in the middle' by asserting your rules on him at his dads house. Stop being pushy and demanding. IF you continue having concerns (and no helmet does NOT rise to the level...nor does paranoia about step mom being a molester), ask for a GAL.

(sorry folks...I'm sure some of you are disappointed....just a tiny tiny hope mom will get this is not about her)

i have suggested he take parenting classes alone and he was defensive which i dont understand if he has nothing to hide. my son comes back explaining how they talked about me and my boyfriend or ask how we treat him while hes in our care. can my son stand in front of the judge and explain what they keep asking him? its not fair for him to go through that and not enjoy his time but get asked what we do during our time

 

[Zigner]

Are we (collectively) this stupid? Really?

 

[MichaCA]

No i believe she is a possible sex offender because she was with a man who is under the legal age.. i have expressed i dont appreciate pictures of my son being posted for everyone to see. how many sickos are out there? my attorney has sent a request in that during his 6 weeks of summer i get to have the weekends with him so my son can at least have friends over to stay the night.

Also my attorney called and made the crazy notion that my son has told them i make my son go to school to get in trouble. i believe they are lying to their attorney and saying my son is telling them stuff. would they make my son go to court to testify? they are only getting my son stuck in the middle. my sons grades have dropped dramatically since his visits and i have documents from his teachers about his behavior but my ex is saying my son told them its me

Ditto my above post.

I have no doubt that your negativity is really stressing out your child. You can keep fighting, making excuses in the name of your son, but your really on the edge of digging a hole here you won't climb out of. STOP INVOLVING YOUR CHILD IN YOUR STUFF.

 

[lilmansmom]

Ditto my above post.

I have no doubt that your negativity is really stressing out your child. You can keep fighting, making excuses in the name of your son, but your really on the edge of digging a hole here you won't climb out of. STOP INVOLVING YOUR CHILD IN YOUR STUFF.

that is the thing i am trying to explain my son confides in me and tells me (i dont ask) that he doesnt like that they keep asking him things about what we do he said he just wants to play but they keep and keep asking and he feels obligated to answer and feels he will get in trouble. this is why i didnt want him in his life. but now his attorney is telling my attorney the complete opposite and demands on fighting for custody because he states my son is telling him and his "wife" how awful i am. i just want to make sure they wont put my son on the stand for them

 

[tuffbrk]

Do whatever your attorney tells you to do. There is no reason for you to ask a question on this board when you have an attorney. Have a nice day.

 

[Banned_Princess]

Well, you are pretty awful.


your boyfriend huh? where are your quotation marks for him?

I bet you have no problem leaving son with "boyfriend" and allow "boyfriend" to take kid on outings alone. why is that different.