wife "babysits"

[dannyt]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

If it's my exs time for holiday and visitation i believe that since they wanted it so bad they would need to take the time off work to "visit" their child.

Its my exs holiday and i have been aware that my ex leaves MY child with his "wife" she takes them to the park and wherever she feels the need to take them. since he is not present which he should be, could i get in trouble if i also "showed" up and took the child. i never gave permission that his "wife" could "baby sit" MY child and because im custodial parent i am looking at his best interests. i spoke with the police in our local area and they have told me they cant do anything about it if she were to call the cope because i am the parent and she is not. please tell me if this is true or not thanks

this is not just YOUR child-this is HIS child too. he doesnt need your permisson to do anything when the child is with him-its none of your business.your are just trying to interfere with dad's time, and its going to end up costing you custody. you dont know for a fact that sm is a child molester.

 

[Ohiogal]

Well, you are pretty awful.


your boyfriend huh? where are your quotation marks for him?

I bet you have no problem leaving son with "boyfriend" and allow "boyfriend" to take kid on outings alone. why is that different.

Her "boyfriend" is only in to little girls. How do I know this? OP has the emotional and mental age of a 6 year old and he sleeps with her. Since her son is a little boy that isn't a problem.

 

[lilmansmom]

Her "boyfriend" is only in to little girls. How do I know this? OP has the emotional and mental age of a 6 year old and he sleeps with her. Since her son is a little boy that isn't a problem.

apprently the safety and well being of my son is not in anyones interest. its funny how his "wife" can allow him to roam in the middle of the streets unsupervised and nothing gets done and i try and protect my child but nope. he informs me he doesnt like being harassed with questions from them so i try and protect him to stand in front of the judge but you all criticize me. she continues to post pictures when there are creeps on the facebook but apparently thats no problem? his grades have dropped dramatically since his visits but nobody seems to care but me all i ask is if theres anything i can legally do to minimize visits and holidays

i want some weekends during his summer vacation so he has the opportunity for friends to be over. i dont feel comfortable with everyone watching my son during the time my ex is at work when he could be with me. i would like my ex to attend parenting classes. i would like for my son not to be around the people my ex and his "wife" associate with to correspond with my rules.. is that so hard to comply with?

 

[TheGeekess]

apprently the safety and well being of my son is not in anyones interest. its funny how his "wife" can allow him to roam in the middle of the streets unsupervised and nothing gets done and i try and protect my child but nope. he informs me he doesnt like being harassed with questions from them so i try and protect him to stand in front of the judge but you all criticize me. she continues to post pictures when there are creeps on the facebook but apparently thats no problem? his grades have dropped dramatically since his visits but nobody seems to care but me all i ask is if theres anything i can legally do to minimize visits and holidays

i want some weekends during his summer vacation so he has the opportunity for friends to be over. i dont feel comfortable with everyone watching my son during the time my ex is at work when he could be with me. i would like my ex to attend parenting classes. i would like for my son not to be around the people my ex and his "wife" associate with to correspond with my rules.. is that so hard to comply with?

Alrighty then.

 

[Banned_Princess]

I think you need parenting classes more then dad does.

 

[AnotherTenant]

all i ask is if theres anything i can legally do to minimize visits and holidays

I'll tell you exactly what you can do: take your ex back to court and ask the judge to grant your wishes. Then please report back here and tell us exactly what the judge says to you in response, because most of us could use a good laugh. I know I need one after reading yet another of your crazy threads.

 

[Proserpina]

You want to minimize visits and holidays?

Oh honey, you don't have to visit with your child at all!

Simply let Dad have custody - you can then minimize all the holidays and visits all you want!

You don't even have to see him!

 

[Zeke73]

Hahaha -- you sound like my ex wife which is heading to jail. Get over yourself and realize the child has TWO parents. You can't nor will EVER control what he does on his time. You women get your britches in a whad when it didn't just take you to create.
Get over it and grow up - deal with the father and help your child!

 

[not2cleverRed]

Yes, it's a troll, but... for the love of pete, can't she learn punctuation.

If the "wife" is actually married to the child's father, then no quotes are necessary, as the woman is just a wife.
No quotation marks required, and the use is actually demeaning. If you had a valid argument, the quotes would detract from it.
(If she's a common law wife, then call her that - it's accurate and not insulting. If she's just a shack up honey, call her a girlfriend.)

Similarly for "show up" or "pick up" or whatever phrase it was. Either the woman came to participate in the exchange, or she didn't.

Legal advice: ROFR.

And no, it's not an abbreviation for "rolling on floor rhyming". <- Case where quotes is warranted.

 

[Eekamouse]

It's so clear to me what is killing OP. The step-mom is a damn near perfect parent and OP's child obviously loves his step mommy so much and he really enjoys spending time with her. OP is obsessively jealous of a woman she knows she can't compete with nor measure up to - ever. That's two males she knows that prefer that other woman to herself. Bitter are the grapes today. I bet if OP's current boyfriend spent a little time with ex's new wife, he'd fall in love with her, too. Must suck to come face to face with the person you wish you were but know you'll never be.

 

[CSO286]

It's so clear to me what is killing OP. The step-mom is a damn near perfect parent and OP's child obviously loves his step mommy so much and he really enjoys spending time with her. OP is obsessively jealous of a woman she knows she can't compete with nor measure up to - ever. That's two males she knows that prefer that other woman to herself. Bitter are the grapes today. I bet if OP's current boyfriend spent a little time with ex's new wife, he'd fall in love with her, too. Must suck to come face to face with the person you wish you were but know you'll never be.

Agree (Eleventy bajillion)