ROTFLMAO. Instead of dealing with the facts, you launch into fantasy land.
As for your specific complaints, I'm not a woman, nor am I catty or spiteful, nor am I a cheap ba$tard trying to force the state to support my children. In fact, I pay considerably more than state guidelines for my daughter's support and have never once complained about it - even to my ex.
So stop your whining and listen to what you've been told repeatedly.
What I've been told repeatedly in this thread is apparently wrong, SIR. (I'm sorry took your b*tchy, female behavior to mean that you were a female. My bad.)
Apparently, there are exceptional cases (like my own), in which CSS occasionally forgives debt. Apparently, there are also programs which compromise with parents on a reduced amount of principle to be repaid. If you reread my very first post, you will see that these two useful bits of information are
exactly what I was hoping to find out from posting here.
If you have the patience to go through the previous 70-something posts, you will see that I was told by a number of know-it-all's that there was no such program in existence anywhere in the universe, and there was no possibility in hell that the CSS would
ever reduce or forgive my fiance's debt.
Well, the know-it-all's have been proven wrong. It seems
l o o p h o l e s *
do*, in fact, exist for certain, qualifying situations!
Do I expect that these know-it-all's will make any apologies for their misinformation, however? Of course not! That would be far too decent.