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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC/SC Hope everyone here is well. I posted in January and shortly after my ex and I came to an agreement on a school schedule however he would not put it in writing. When I pushed the issue a few days ago, he said we no longer have an agreement...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC/SC Well it's been several years since I've been here so there was at least for a while some co-parenting going on. Little IC will be 6 later this year and I will start Kindergarten in the fall. Ex is still ex, but we do share 50/50 custody...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC Background: I live in the same place I did when little IC was born, ex lives 44 miles away. Currently has a court order for 4/3, me/ex. Ex has taken anywhere from 0% to 75% of his time over the last year. The only month he used all of his...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? My oldest son is almost 9. His father wasn't ready to be a father and "walked away" when he was 3 months old except for the drunken phone calls and harassment of me that went on until he was 14 months. I never asked for child support as I make...

Change in parenting plan? Updated w/ different question What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC I can find all the "best interest of the child statute" on the books, but I don't know how to find if NC is for or against relocation, and if the burden is on the relocating parent or on...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? So...I've been away for a while...but I was wondering if the Spin man actually went away or if anyone knows what happened with him? I've been wondering and couldn't help but asking.

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? FL/SD If a custody order is issued in FL and the mother/child relocate to SD where the father lives, how would jurisdiction be transferred to SD where both parents and the child now reside? Would the judge in FL have to relinquish jurisdiction...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Unknown I saw this on another message board I post on and was wondering what the legalities are. Situation: Mother is pregnant and doesn't plan to notify her ex she is pregnant or the child exists after the child's birth. If he asks, she...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC When a child has been referred for a developmental evaluation, what happens when one parent (can you guess which one? :eek:) is saying they disagree with the evaluation being carried out? We share joint legal and physical custody. Ex's...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC My ex and I "settled" our issues in July. It wasn't what either of us really wanted, but we were both feeling pressured so we went along with it. Since the lawyers have butted out, we have been able to work together a lot better and we have...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC We finalized our custody issues on the 15th of July. It was stipulated by the judge that "The parties will exchange all information required by local rules and determine child support within 7 days from today's date, or the 22nd day of July...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Nc We had court last week...had tried to work out an agreement before hand but no luck as dad was demanding his three days off each week to start now! Got to court and the judge asked the attorneys to talk to her in her chambers. They came out...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC, but not really relevant... When you are trying to co-parent with a nearly impossible ex, what makes a "hill to die on" so to speak? What do you just let roll off your back? Do you ever "argue" your point for the principle of the matter (when...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC Ok. I know I can count on you all to tell me if I am being an xxx or controlling or getting the little hairs on my neck up for no reason...which I try not to be/do...but know I can be/do at times. Dad is currently exercising 2 days/wk of...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Hi, So, to update everyone. CPS is going to substantiate the case for neglect resulting in serious physical injury, maintaining a neglectful and injurious environment and failure to provide necessary and stabilizing medical treatment. The...