Gracie3787
Senior Member
There are a couple of things that haven't been mentioned or asked about:
1. How old are the children?
2. Do you know how they will feel about living with you instead of their Mom?
3. Do you TRULY believe that you can give them a more secure and better EVERYDAY life than their Mother can?
4. Do you know how your ex and new hubby will feel about you getting custody? Will they agree? Will they fight it? Or worse- will it create a situation that might last for years with the kids in the middle?
You are obviously a wonderful Father to your kids and they are very fortunate to have you as their Father. You are the only one who knows what is truly in your heart and what your children truly need, and you are the only one who can answer your own questions. I probably shouldn't bring religion into this, but I hope you aren't offended that I am praying for God to give you guidance in making your decision.
Gracie
1. How old are the children?
2. Do you know how they will feel about living with you instead of their Mom?
3. Do you TRULY believe that you can give them a more secure and better EVERYDAY life than their Mother can?
4. Do you know how your ex and new hubby will feel about you getting custody? Will they agree? Will they fight it? Or worse- will it create a situation that might last for years with the kids in the middle?
You are obviously a wonderful Father to your kids and they are very fortunate to have you as their Father. You are the only one who knows what is truly in your heart and what your children truly need, and you are the only one who can answer your own questions. I probably shouldn't bring religion into this, but I hope you aren't offended that I am praying for God to give you guidance in making your decision.
Gracie