concerned & desperate grandmother

[stealth2]

we were all out of the house by 16, the other kids are too young,

Too young for what?

 

[Zigner]

Too young for what?

For grandma to play the part of their savior.

 

[theresajengle]

Too young for what?

too young to get a drivers license, too young to get a job.

 

[Zigner]

too young to get a drivers license, too young to get a job.

The 16 year old can't get a license without parental permission anyway...

 

[theresajengle]

For grandma to play the part of their savior.

that's what grandparents do, least that i can do for screwing up my daughter. i was too young and didn't know it. 17 when she was born

 

[Zigner]

that's what grandparents do, least that i can do for screwing up my daughter. i was too young and didn't know it. 17 when she was born

I submit that you are a part of the problem, not a part of the solution.

 

[theresajengle]

like I said before " I have already wrote the letters, all ready to go" I just wanted to get information before I send it because when I do I know it is over, they will all be mad at me, maybe forever. i know im gonna have to do it

 

[Zigner]

like I said before " I have already wrote the letters, all ready to go" I just wanted to get information before I send it because when I do I know it is over, they will all be mad at me, maybe forever. i know im gonna have to do it

Right - it's all about you.

 

[not2cleverRed]

we were all out of the house by 16, the other kids are too young,

And from what you've posted here, that didn't work out well.

Break. The. Chain.

Stop the drama. If there is abuse, contact CPS.

If the 16 year old isn't going to school, then offer to help get her back into school. Clearly she needs ELA classes, from what you've posted here.

If the 16 year old is going to school, just doing it remotely, then... welcome to 2020.

NY law is the only law that is relevant here. Not CA. Not PA.

 

[Eekamouse]

How do you even know it's the dad who is the bad guy here? Seems like your daughter is a pretty awful person too. You can't even know how much is true and how much is exaggerated to make you feel sorry for them.

 

[theresajengle]

I submit that you are a part of the problem, not a part of the solution.

probably right because it has only gotten worse, now I am gonna have to make things even worse than ever,, before anything will get better

 

[Zigner]

probably right because it has only gotten worse, now I am gonna have to make things even worse than ever,, before anything will get better

Ok, sure, go with that.
I have to ask...if things are so bad, why would you write a letter as opposed to making a simple phone call and getting the ball rolling immediately?

 

[theresajengle]

And from what you've posted here, that didn't work out well.

Break. The. Chain.

Stop the drama. If there is abuse, contact CPS.

If the 16 year old isn't going to school, then offer to help get her back into school. Clearly she needs ELA classes, from what you've posted here.

If the 16 year old is going to school, just doing it remotely, then... welcome to 2020.

NY law is the only law that is relevant here. Not CA. Not PA.

school is remotely

 

[Zigner]

school is remotely

Then she IS in school.

 

[stealth2]

too young to get a drivers license, too young to get a job.

So what? They are certainly NOT to young to be protected from abusive parents. I really don't understand your purpose.