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tried it and it worked for about 2 months until they put their camera up and they started with the racing by my home while we were outside in my front yard playing again.
If they are violating the speed limit, call the cops and complain about speeders on your street.
did it, the pplice cannot do anything unless they witness it, even if there are other's who did witness it, as was the case here
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I appreciate your input, but you fail to understand, the more I ignore of their behavior, the more they find to complain about.
Complain to whom? Why do you care what they have to say? Ignore them. They don't exist.
To myself, wife and including the kids who she has admitted she told them to stop and had video taped them then of course denied it and called them liars. Sorry but as a parent I feel it is my responsibility to protect my children as well as any others who are intrusted to my care, and that includes from physcotic pain pill popping adults
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it's been the one constant since they moved in, she is very controlling and if we do not abide, she freaks.
They can only have that kind of power over you if you give it to them.
and me trying to be the "good" neighbor but more so the fool, attempted to keep her subdued by trying to meet her demands. My bad, and it ended. Now I am a 2nd grader?
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The latest example is the camera issue: she didn't like our's, even though hers was up two weeks b4 mine and she said right to my face, "we are watching you" but when we watched them back to end the name calling and threats from out of view of their camera, they felt they were being violated and called the cops.
So they are watching you. If they violate the law, call the police. Putting up cameras to "show them" is childish and rather silly. He did it first was worn out as an excuse for boorish behavior by second grade.
Actually I put up camera's because he would stand out from his (camera, and couldn't be seen) and threaten me bodily harm, such as and I qoute, "gouging out your good eye". So, as protection, I wanted something that would catch my gate entrance to my own home in case he thought he could enter my property and take out my eye. His words, not mine Again we told the cops and there were witnesses, but none of them heard it and it is only a threat. I'm not taking that chance
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When the cops didn't do anything,(the cop told us she let him know about her unhappiness, in so many words) they started w/ the flipping off the camera.
Okay. Again, why do you care? Ignore them. Grow up.
I do ignore them as well as laugh, it's comical really, point being, "she told off a cop since she did not get her way"
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then I guess they got a brain storm and figured they would put one up in the back yards on my window.
If there is a camera aimed in your window, you may have an invasion of privacy complaint. Talk to an attorney.
Code enforement is coming out tomorrow and an attorney is set up for Friday
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So you see I really have no choice. I did think about a spotlight, like the lazer, but may just go with some kind of blocking
You have had every choice and at every turn you have made poor choices.
Not true, I have tried as stated to talk things out and WAS MADE A FOOL OF. BUT I did keep to the agreement and STOPPED playing baseball, again, to be the good neighbor. What did I get, they install a camera and then go back to flying by my home as we are outside playing. I asked what is up, I thought we had an agreement and am met with 'I'm done talking' and then threat of stomping my a.."
Grow up. Why do you care about what the neighbor's think or do? If they violate the law, call the police. Life is too short to worry about pleasing jerks.
So what your saying is I should allow them to dictate what my family can and cannot do in my own home? Allow them to say nasty things to my kids and about my kids? Run for cover as they hot rod down the road and basically give in to their petty means...
Listen, i asked for advice on this situation, there is SO much more said I cannot put in writing, but trust me, I have grown up and it got me into this crap. The old way, the old me(younger), it would have been taken care of already.
But I appreciate your input, including he insults, thanks