CourtClerk, I just have one question for ya:I will agree with Ld, however, I'd like to know why if the OP saw that her daughter's shoes were too small and her shirts didn't fit... why she didn't get off her behind and go buy her child some clothes and shoes or do we just abdicate ALL parental responsibility when you ask someone to temporarily watch your child?
You can't have it both ways.... take care of your own kid, then you don't have to worry about grandma at all. Go work at McDonalds.
It was stated that I said, "I don't mind honestly if my daughter's paternal grandmother wants to continue to help me financially with my daughter until I can take care of my baby again "
In response to you telling me that I can't have it both ways, I want to know how is THAT above statement that you "quoted" me on indicating in ANY way that I want it BOTH ways?? I will re-type it again since I can't read names, nor not know the accurate definitions of some terms that have been stated about me: I DON'T MIND HONESTLY IF MY DAUGHTER'S PATERNAL GRANDMOTHER WANTS TO CONTINUE TO HELP ME FINANCIALLY WITH MY DAUGHTER UNTIL I CAN TAKE CARE OF MY BABY AGAIN. With that being said(again), what I was saying was: My child's paternal grandmother has ALWAYS been nice enough to help me financially with my child. I don't mean 100% financially. I mean if my daughter needed medicine that I couldn't afford(not covered by Medicaid), or if she needed something for school, or mainly it was for medicine. My daughter has severe seasonal allergies. In spite of the biological father(the paternal grandmother's son) being a total deadbeat, even when I had jobs, if my baby needed something that I couldn't get(maybe because I hadn't gotten paid from my job yet), my child's paternal grandmother would help. Yes, this would be while I was on my own. MEANING when I had my own apartment, own car, own job.
I have by NO MEANS been an unfit, nor lazy parent. I am NOT expecting it BOTH ways. If that was the case, I wouldn't have ever posted this message. If ANYONE wanted ANYTHING BOTH ways, its the biological father. When I was on my own, he was at home with mommy. When I wasn't on my own, he was either at home with mommy or living with a girlfriend. I've TRIED to make a family with him, he was not ready then, and he's not ready now. Why? Because he IS getting it BOTH ways. His mom(the paternal grandmother) has paid his child support FOR him for 10 months back in 2006, his mom has ALWAYS been angry with me for putting her son on child support because he doesn't take care of his child. Currently, HE is the one having it BOTH ways: His mom is taking care of our child, and trying to gain custody for HIS sake(so the child support could stop maybe, hell, I don't know!), while the whole time, he's not even LOOKING for employment like I am, and STILL lives at home. With mommy. I wish like HELL that I could be out on my own again, for the sake of both me & my daughter. But I know that this a difficult time for me right now, and this too, shall pass. My daughter is NOT about to go unattended nor not taken care of because I'm going through financial difficulties at this time. If I wanted it BOTH ways, then I surely would NOT fight the fact that the paternal grandmother wants custody of my child. I more than likely would have went out to the "clubs" & CELEBRATED at the fact that, "Yeah!!! I'm about to BE FREE!!!!!! NO MORE KIDS!!!!!!!"
Please read my questions carefully. I know you are a "senior", but wow....I couldn't tell. Nope, I'm not by ANY MEANS trying to attack you. Just wanted you to see what it feels like to be talked to like you're nobody, like you're a lazy parent, and like you are trying to scream "victim", or like someone stated to me in this forum, a "martyr"...
Did I get it right this time???
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