HomesteadFarmer
Junior Member
You're not getting custody to avoid child support. Does it occur to you that Mom might not have needed so much government aid if you'd been supporting your mutual child?
Let me remind you:
No because it was her decision to live off the government since before her first child with another man, 8 years ago. It's an easy system people in poverty can get sucked into without doing any hard work. Yes I could get food stamps as well but I'd rather work and make my own food. Yes I could get assisted living but I'd rather build my own house. Yes I could get utility assistance but I'd rather build and maintain my own stoves.
I have given her money when she's asked and he's only 8 months old. By your way of putting things shouldn't she have gotten work by now to support her kids? No, because she gets more money by not doing anything.