Did I respond? Was I mean??
I know for sure you didn't respond to my second post and I really don't remember who posted to my first one. I just know that there were some things said in a hateful way.
I'm not saying that I didn't learn anything from the replies either, I did. I know people aren't meant to go away from this site with the warm fuzzies and yes, they need the truth, it is in their best interest to have the truth.
My brother died one early morning when I was 12, my aunt came busting into the house screaming "He's dead, he's dead" Guess what? He was dead but I didn't need to be told like that. The method of delivery of the news or advice can be important especially when someone feels like they are holding on to the last thread of their sanity.
That is an extreme example but I think it helps make my point. There is truth and a lot of you know the law and are very helpful and give your time.
I'm just screwing up, I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings and I would hope that those who respond don't mean to hurt other's feelings either but I have obviously hurt feelings and I should have kept my opinions to myself. I truly am sorry.
Ohiogal
I can honestly say that I have learned the most from you. You give concise information. I am sure that you are a nice and well-loved person. I have been on the internet long enough to know that the written word is a poor substitute for personal interaction. There is no body language to read, no wry smile to soften the blow of hard truth. I would probably like you too if I really knew you. LOL, by that I mean not that I don't like you but that I don't really know you.