Peanuts200788
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Thank you...OR... you filing for CS/state assistance.
But that's down the road. If you think it'll end the contact and let you concentrate on getting the baby BORN, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
And ya know, I don't normally recommend that people lie to ANYONE about their children or potential children.... and this isn't strictly a lie. But it's more important to YOU and to the BABY that you stop worrying. If that'll help stop the worry, it's not something that's going to bite you later.
I had just gotten to the point to where I had accepted things and was on a positive road...it seems like once you get to that point, something ALWAYS comes along to bump you off the road...that's life I guess
I just hope that later on down the road (because I am on state assistance-medicaid) that he'll balk at the process of trying to get visitation...because from what I am told, first he has to take the paternity test (then possibly pay for that when it shows he's the father), then legitimate the child (they have to do that in GA), and THEN go to court for custody...and i'm sure that takes lots of money...
which if it goes that far i don't know what I'll do because i DO NOT have the money for a laywer, but as you all say, that's months even possibly years down the road.