wife "babysits"

[Proserpina]

are you deliberately being stupid? or where you born this way?

this child is NOT a toy. WTH is wrong with you???

Hon, she's a troll. Check the post hx. Y'know, it's weird - you never see her and spinny here at the same time....


She's just providing entertainment until admin shows up and closes the thread again. Nobody takes her seriously.

 

[ecmst12]

Stop feeding the troll, people.

 

[Proserpina]

im not saying he is a toy but if he wants to come with his MOTHER instead of a stranger then why is that an issue

<once more, with glee!>

She's not a stranger, hon. She's StepMOMMY.

Do you know what that means?

 

[lilmansmom]

I believe your son is more likely to be at risk while he's in your care, and I'd hazard I'm not alone there.

I hope you can afford those therapy bills...and the supervision that you'll be paying for once custody is changed.

ok let me understand this, if i believe my son is in harms way and i can "prove" it i think any judge would see its in the childs best interest to make it only to where dad can be with child on his visitation since he fought so hard for this. i dont like my ex "wife" and my son has said he didnt like her as well but wont tell his dad anything i dont want her watching MY son

 

[Proserpina]

Stop feeding the troll, people.

Oh, alright.

I've got old lottery tickets to check, anyhoo. I'll let y'all know if anything pops up!

 

[ecmst12]

Too bad. Get over it. Go away.

 

[lilmansmom]

<once more, with glee!>

She's not a stranger, hon. She's StepMOMMY.

Do you know what that means?

you all have made many posts stating that step parents, bedwarmers are merlely "legal strangers" correct?

 

[lilmansmom]

Too bad. Get over it. Go away.

all i have done is ask a simple question whether or not i can get my child if i know where my son will be at if he is not with his father

 

[ecmst12]

No, you can't.

 

[CSO286]

all i have done is ask a simple question whether or not i can get my child if i know where my son will be at if he is not with his father

No you cannot.

That would be just like your child being in daycare or visiting Grandma while you run errands, and Dad going to pick him up. Technically the child isn't being cared for by you, so there wouldn't be a problem, right?

 

[sandyclaus]

im not saying he is a toy but if he wants to come with his MOTHER instead of a stranger then why is that an issue

I have a sneaking suspicion that it is YOU who wants him to be with you. If the child was given the choice, if the "wife" takes them to fun places and such, they aren't going to want to come home to you just yet.

You are the one making this big deal out of the situation. If the child is not unhappy, not being abused, what is your problem? Are you so selfish that you will not allow your child one moment to be happy in your absence? The child will have to learn how to deal with people that aren't his parents sometime.

 

[sandyclaus]

all i have done is ask a simple question whether or not i can get my child if i know where my son will be at if he is not with his father

Are you trying to say you'd be OK if the child was at childcare or a babysitters? Anything but with the wife of the ex, right?

That seems to be the problem in a nutshell.

 

[lilmansmom]

Are you trying to say you'd be OK if the child was at childcare or a babysitters? Anything but with the wife of the ex, right?

That seems to be the problem in a nutshell.

yes, thats a problem with me because my ex cried and cried till he got the judge on his side and now hes not even spending the holiday with him but leaving him with a woman my son doesnt know and one i dont like. i have been told im the custodial parent i can decide who the child can and cannot be around. his "wife" has friends i do not like nor do i want my son around and its a rule my kids cant be around them it applies when MY son is with them also. he isnt allowed to be with those people.

 

[CSO286]

yes, thats a problem with me because my ex cried and cried till he got the judge on his side and now hes not even spending the holiday with him but leaving him with a woman my son doesnt know and one i dont like. i have been told im the custodial parent i can decide who the child can and cannot be around. his "wife" has friends i do not like nor do i want my son around and its a rule my kids cant be around them it applies when MY son is with them also. he isnt allowed to be with those people.

This is wrong.

You may choose whom the child can be around and socialize with on your own time, but you do not have the right to dictate whom the child may be around or socialize with when he is on Dad's time.

 

[lilmansmom]

I have a sneaking suspicion that it is YOU who wants him to be with you. If the child was given the choice, if the "wife" takes them to fun places and such, they aren't going to want to come home to you just yet.

You are the one making this big deal out of the situation. If the child is not unhappy, not being abused, what is your problem? Are you so selfish that you will not allow your child one moment to be happy in your absence? The child will have to learn how to deal with people that aren't his parents sometime.

my son has stated he dont like her and always asks why he has to stay with his "wife" when he should be spending the time with his dad. the whole point of visitation