You are right, to a point, If it doesn't effect my or OUR DAUGHTERS, lives it's none of my business, as a father, just like, as a mother, my daughter life is my business, especially her medical situation.....That's why i posted this question, so i could figure out, if/how it would effect either my or our daughters life....
I asked about the DSS coming after me for child/medical support, that would effect my and our daughters life
I asked if i would have to cancel or change our daughters insurance through my job, that would effect my and our daughter life
I asked how the dual coverage plans work, this is something i have to know for doctors appointments and, that would effect my and our daughters life
You're right, i did overstep a bit by asking if her mother will still be able to get government insurance with our daughter only having supplemental government insurance, but that was why her mother was planning this, so if she doesn't, it will effect our daughters life
I will be taking CSO's advice....Tell our daughters mother "Go ahead, but i will not be canceling my work insurance on our daughter" I've got to remember to stop worrying and trying to 'fix' things for others, hopefully everything works out for daughters mother, but it's not my job to 'fix' it and make it work out.