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No violence what so ever. She didn't strike me either, just pretty much just didn't care about the issue. I did raise my voice to her as I was angry. Not sure too many would be happy in my case. I've been as clear as I can be on a forum. So a lot of this is misconstrued. When I state I work a...
She works a total of 12 -15 hours in 3 days. (If she decides to go in) When I get off work I do the majority of the cleaning, cooking, yard work etc. I'm not expecting a spotless house, but I would appreciate some effort in her case to make sure the kids are living in a nice clean environment.
Finally got a phone call from them about my oldest school arrangements. They want me to drive 45 minutes to pick him up and then turn around and drop him off at school. I work at 8 and he can't be at school earlier than 8:25. Then after school drop him back off. How would that even be possible...
After the 4th child I was ready to get snipped. She then said what if we wanted a baby when the others were grown up. I told her from my understanding that the vasectomy could be reversed. Anyways her Dr. and mother said it would be best to have her have her tubes tied right after our 4th child...
Except she doesn't. She works night shift because that's what she wanted. She is out with friends all the time or they are over. I bought her a vehicle to motivate her to get her license so she would have even more opportunities. She wanted the babies so not following you there?? That is what...
I really don't find myself being controlling. She has free reign to do whatever she wants. (obviously this started because I was angry that another TV is destroyed - which I feel is justified) I just feel slighted and miserable because she took our kids with no notice and won't even let me...
She's always had minor issues. She was beaten as a child and her mom abandoned her until she was 15. She would frequently run away from her mothers. I wasn't there during this time so I can only take her word for it. Although her father did admit to some pretty terrible things. When we first got...
I wanted one child. (I love them all though and wouldn't trade it) She wanted a big family and being pregnant seemed be the biggest joy in her life. She lied to me about being on birth control and tubes tied. Her family and her dr finally encouraged her to get the procedure.
Sorry if I come across that way. I'm not perfect by any means and I'm sure it may come across that way sometimes. Out of all the arguments my wife and I have had over the years, me being controlling has never been brought up. I may do little things here and there that I don't notice, but she's...
To an extent. Most places that we have tried have just been in an out and offering medication. Never really wanting to put in the effort to see what exactly is wrong.
Yea, that must be it. Car seats usually stay in the van, but always readjusted everytime one the boys get it. I was home by Noon. She's never even fully up by then. I happened to be called in on my day off to help someone out and took the available vehicle. Nice assumptions being made. We...
She also has friends that do come over or she and the kids are over at one of the neighbors playing with their kids. So she doesn't have to be isolated everyday as that would drive anyone crazy. We've discussed a lot about therapy and other medications, but she always seems to back out. Same...
Sorry for all of the out of order replies. This time I happened to take the van to work since it was the quickest to get to and I was close to running late. And you are right that we don't install and uninstall the car seats that often. 90% of the time they are in the van as that is the easiest...
My workplace is only about 5 minutes from our house. One child is in kindergarten and two more in preschool. Luckily we've never had an emergency, but 90% of the time the van which houses the car seats the majority of the time is home and we have great neighbors who've we talked who would have...
No she is not. We have discussed it multiple times, but shes never wanted to go through with it. The closest thing shes had in the past is medication. She immediately stopped that do to her feeling like a zombie all the time. Children 6,4,3,22 months. So I know she has her hands full as do I...
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