LdiJ
Senior Member
That wasn't an insult or opinion. That is the reality of the situation. Legally, the only opinion that matters is the opinion of CPS.I do see what is wrong here, and have followed every requirement to the tee. I am specifically referencing the lack of communication and direction!
Grandma did allow so, with little communication, but it was allowed.....
So now your comeback is me or her is wrong? Because from above she would be wrong.....which is my whole point.
Unnesscary insults are also not needed, so technically your answers is to yourself. Your "opinion is irrelevant as well"
Factual information, that is different.
Again though, I do appreciate your "opinion" as well.
When someone takes on the job of kinship foster care (ie grandma caring for the child) they are specifically agreeing to follow the rules set by CPS for that case. One of the things that they agree to do is to not permit any unauthorized contact between the parent(s) and children. Any violation of the rules can result in the child being removed from the kinship care provider and put into foster care with someone else. Many grandparent kinship care providers have had children yanked from their care for allowing unauthorized contact.
For example, if the schedule set by CPS is that you are allowed to see the child on Tuesdays and Thursdays, between 5-7 PM then that is the ONLY contact that grandma is supposed to allow between you and the child. Telling you that they would be at a location like a fair or an amusement park so that you could come there to see the child there would be violating that rule.