Wow, there are wayyyyy too many people involved in this.
Mom's mom, Dad's SIL, close friend of Dad and new wife . . . Is Dad's cousin's brother's sister's friend gonna pop up next?
Everyone else just needs to stay out of this. Mom and Dad need to handle this without any inside influence.
As I was watching that video, I almost felt sorry for Mom. But I felt most sorry for the kids. My God, I couldn't imagine being a child and having to see all of this go on.
That video was the most disgusting display I have ever seen. All of those adults need to grow up, and everyone but Mom and Dad need to back off.