Grandmother Took My Son HELP PLEASE!!!

[bononos]

i CAN SUPPORT HIM and MYSELF in the living situation i am in. i am currently seeking alternate employment now that i have a ged i have more options.

YOU CANNOT support him.
Your mother and the state would be supporting him.
Again, what has changed in your life that makes you now suitable to have this child that? What have you done to improve your situation from then till now?

 

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YOU CANNOT support him.
Your mother and the state would be supporting him.
Again, what has changed in your life that makes you now suitable to have this child that? What have you done to improve your situation from then till now?

i have a job and i have a ged. i didnt have either before. that helps. and if i am still found unfit i want my mother to be given custody. also i never LOST custody i was never FOUND unfit in the first place and i think they would rather the child be with 1)the mother 2) someone that doesnt scream in his face and slap him @ 15 months old 3) doesnt allow drugs in the house 4)doesnt drink or do drugs 5)has a job unlike the guardian whom is currently collecting unemployment 6)doesnt live with an abusive father.

 

[Zephyr]

but dear, if they find you unfit, therefore unable to make decisions regarding your child, why would they grant the change in guardian? that just plain doesn't make sense.

and do quit referring to yourself as unfit in any manner, you slip up and say something close to that in front of the judge and I don't think this will work out for you.

 

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but dear, if they find you unfit, therefore unable to make decisions regarding your child, why would they grant the change in guardian? that just plain doesn't make sense.

and do quit referring to yourself as unfit in any manner, you slip up and say something close to that in front of the judge and I don't think this will work out for you.

because i voluntarily gave guardianship because i thought i was too young at the time. i was never told i couldnt take care of my son. im sooo confused. im not unfit at all and i wont say that, thanks for the tip though

 

[bononos]

i have a job and i have a ged. i didnt have either before. that helps. and if i am stiff found unfit i want my mother to be given custody.

If I were a judge, I'd suggest you talke another 6 months to better yourself more. Your off to a start, that's good.
By the way, before you make an azz out of yourself infront of the judge, the word is VACATE not VACATION.
You live with your mother and don't have your child right now, why are you only earning $200 a week?
You should be working morning, noon, and night and socking away money.

 

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If I were a judge, I'd suggest you talke another 6 months to better yourself more. Your off to a start, that's good.
By the way, before you make an azz out of yourself infront of the judge, the word is VACATE not VACATION.
You live with your mother and don't have your child right now, why are you only earning $200 a week?
You should be working morning, noon, and night and socking away money.

i didnt know how to word it when i was putting it that way, i know its vacate. thanks though. im just not familiar with the legal system at all and i never thought it would come to this and its absolutly killing me that i havent seen my baby boy for 3 weeks. im so scared he will forget me and call her "mommy".

 

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why are you only earning $200 a week?

i only make $8/ph and i work about 30 hours a week. i make 200 after taxes. i already have money im starting to save.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

i now found out that the hearing is too early to have one on that date (an attorney). how bad will it rip me apart to go pro-se?
and NO i do NOT expect ANYTHING from that witch. I have things for my son already and I dont need her help whatsoever; nor want it.

YOU NEED TO FOCUS.
How old are you?
Get an attorney they can ask for a continuance if needed.
Did your child's guardian deny you visitation after you filed to vacate the guardianship order?
It is very confusing with all the charges being slung about and your ignorance of legal matters. What is your mother doing to help you? Have you got copies of all the police reports yet?

 

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MASSACHUSETTS

YOU NEED TO FOCUS.


How old are you? i am almost 19. will be in january.


Did your child's guardian deny you visitation after you filed to vacate the guardianship order? no i recently filed to vacate the order. she denied me visitation after i had her son arrested for trying to kill me and threatening to kill me.

What is your mother doing to help you? she is trying to help me find a lawyer but she is soo short on money and she will file for custody if i am denied it.

Have you got copies of all the police reports yet? yes i do

 

[BL]

Look , the Bottom line IS you need a Family Law Attorney when you go to Court . The Attorney can request a continuance .

If you go alone , and request a continuance it could be denied ..

 

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Look , the Bottom line IS you need a Family Law Attorney when you go to Court . The Attorney can request a continuance .

If you go alone , and request a continuance it could be denied ..

why would i need a continuance? i filed for the hearing.

 

[TNBSMommy]

because if someone else is supporting me my paycheck will go to my son.

Having been a young mother in the situation I am going to ask you about, what would you do if your mom passed away? Having someone else support you is NOT self sufficient... Your entire paycheck should not go "to" your son, you will never get any where in life that way, you truly need to start thinking of the future and how to get yourself in a position to truly support yourself and your son with NO ONE's help. B/c honey, talking from experience, momma isn't always going to be there....

 

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Having been a young mother in the situation I am going to ask you about, what would you do if your mom passed away? Having someone else support you is NOT self sufficient... Your entire paycheck should not go "to" your son, you will never get any where in life that way, you truly need to start thinking of the future and how to get yourself in a position to truly support yourself and your son with NO ONE's help. B/c honey, talking from experience, momma isn't always going to be there....

i am trying but it is so hard to prove that im a good mother.
i miss my son so much and i dont want him to forget me!!
WHAT IF HE CALLS HER MOMMY????

 

[Zephyr]

i am trying but it is so hard to prove that im a good mother.
i miss my son so much and i dont want him to forget me!!
WHAT IF HE CALLS HER MOMMY????

this is what I mean about filling your thread with emotion rather than facts.....


to answer your earlier question you would need a continuance because your new lawyer (retain one before the court date) needs to prepare.

 

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this is what I mean about filling your thread with emotion rather than facts.....


to answer your earlier question you would need a continuance because your new lawyer (retain one before the court date) needs to prepare.

can i still file for visitation without an attorney and issue a continuance on the vacate of guardianship??? i NEED to see my son.