Intellectual pursuits ARE betting than strutting around and shaking one's hair. One need not be a brainiac to do creative writing, engage in some theater classes, participate in forensics, create a science fair project etc.
Intellectual pursuits means doing something that demands mind and heart, rather than good bone structure, long legs and a willingness to eat like a parakeet.
Finish carpentry, for example, demands an understanding of math and geometry.
BUT WHY are they "better"? Why, in fact, are they SO MUCH "better" that you can make a blanket statement like you did?
Why should a person who was blessed with good bone structure, an ability to understand how to translate that into a modeling contract, and the drive to make a successful career of his/herself be thought less of?
Why are THEIR gifts "less good" than someone else's gift of a brain, or good hand-eye coordination, or an innate understanding of geometry?
I'm as "responsible" for my appearance as I am my intellect. Both are things I was born with and which require very little from me. Same with my kids. They're gorgeous AND incredibly bright. Why should I force "intellectual pursuits" on them if their true happiness/calling is geared towards more aesthetic concerns?
Should I feel like a failure as a parent if Wild chooses cosmetology school, a husband, a mini van and a couple of kids over a master's degree?