Question for all!

[JaneyS4]

Butterfree:

I just want to know one thing...How does it feel to emotionally damage your children? Is it fun? Does it give you a sense of accomplishment and victory to harm their psyches irrevocably? Does it make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside to use them to hurt him?

All those things you accuse him of, all those allegations you level against him, and what kind of father he is, whether they are true or not, it doesn't matter, because you are one of those crappy parents who use their children to exact revenge on their ex. No matter WHAT he did or did not do to YOU, refusing to allow your children to see their father irrevocably damages them for the rest of their lives. So, whats more important, getting even with him, or making sure their little psyches aren't warped? Obviously, its the former for you and not the latter.

Well, all I can say is I hope the little victories are worth the consequences. Call me one day when your boys come back and spit in your face for making them believe their father didn't love them. You aren't fit to raise a dog.

 

[KCMR]

ya'll are a bunch of nuts...

 

[CMSC]

ya'll are a bunch of nuts...

well aricci, glad you could shed some light on all of this! Now please, if you have nothing real to say then don't bother responding to a thread.

 

[ktarra617]

butterfree,

the bottom line is its not up to you to decide when YOU will ALLOW Thomas to see his children, its up to THE COURT. The Judge will not like what you did. I wouldn't be surprised if you lose custody of the children then we will see how you like paying child support.

time is running out.....

 

[tammy8]

I just have to get in on this one. I am not a frequent poster on this board, I just love to read. I also want to tell you a story of what happened to my Husband 1 yr ago this week. The bm tried her best to talk down about my stepkids DAD (my Husband). It worked to begin with. However now SS12 refuses to be with bm. Bm is lucky to see him once a week and that is only after bribing SS with toys and games and such. SS hates the ground that bm walks on and not because of us......becuase he grew up and saw WHAT WAS REALLY HAPPENING!

Remember butter, it always comes back on you 7X!

Good luck next week RAD!!!!!

 

[JaneyS4]

ya'll are a bunch of nuts...

Whats the matter dear? Can't stand it when all our attention isn't on you??

 

[CMSC]

Whats the matter dear? Can't stand it when all our attention isn't on you??

LOL@janeyS4!!!!

 

[Grace_Adler]

ROTFLMAO! All of you took the words right out of my mouth.

I just want to add one more thing. I wasn't there when all this stuff went on (the allegations) but I will tell you this. Those so called professionals, well they don't always know what they are talking about. There word isn't gold. This may be comparing apples to oranges but here goes... I don't care if they say they've been trained at Oxford and have been doing it 50 years. They are human and it doesn't mean they know all or been doing their job right all this time.EX. I have someone who put a roof on our porch who's been doing it 20 years but guess what? They didn't put enough pitch on the roof and it leaked. It cost almost a $1000 to fix it. Those 20 years really came in handy huh?

You know what else? In psychology, at least half the stuff you learn is nothing but philosophy which is nothing more than opinion trying to be turned into fact.

Also, I don't buy that crap about a child not inventing that stuff. Do you know how creative and influential children are? They pick up on everything and spend the majority of their time playing pretend. They have great imaginations. For all you know they could have picked up on something somewhere else or off of TV and ran with it. Not to try to get anyone in trouble but just playing pretend or using their imaginations, not even understanding what it was. It seems to me some kids think alot of stuff is real that isn't and incorporate it into their world.

I'm not saying your children did this, I'm just saying I don't buy that crap that kids can't make it up. Like I said, they spend most of their time playing pretend. I can't say what's going on, could have been rad (doubtful), could be the kids make believing for whatever reasons..just because it's what kids do and don't know any better sometimes, could be your influence. I don't know.

JMO so no one bite my head off.

 

[wmarge]

Ok, I am confused?


Is there somthing that I missed, cause I dont understand why everyone is trashing on butter? I went back and read some prior posts of hers and it said (providing shes telling the truth) that her X was accused of sexually molesting her kids? Is her husband posting on here too..... I am soooo confused? But thats the story of my life!

 

[CMSC]

hey wmarge check out posts by raddadthomas and bugaboo and maybe you can piece it all together!

hey, butter, sucks to be you right now cause you didn't LIKE the report raddadthomas was given by the evaluator!!!!! Just because he wasn't the psych. you wanted doesn't mean his words aren't worth anything in court! WOW! I would be shakin' in my shoes right now if I were you, sure wish I could be in that courtroom when the judge rips you a new one for custodial interference!

 

[wmarge]

ok

I will check it out

 

[Lil Miss Smarty Panties]

Wow, guess what I just read? Thomas' psych eval. The one butterfree says he never had. The one he had done in June of this year. The one that took place over 2 days. The one where it states that, and I quote here, "Mr. Salts has clearly endured considerable emotional pain and trauma in being kept from having a relationship with his children. He expresses a desire to be cooperative and co-parent with the best interests of the children as the priority. " It was a pretty lengthy document but it showed that he is "mentally healthy". isn't that what you wanted to hear in order to allow him to see his children? Why are you on this board lying about him NOT having a psych eval when you know he did, you just didn't like the results? I read the report, it wasn't edited. I even know his address, birthdate, and phone number. I even know what he wore to the interview. I even read unfavorable things it said about him, but I also read that he admits his faults and his responsiblity in the break up of the marriage. I also read that the evaluator found no reason for YOU to be keeping his children from him. YOU get on here, lie about him not having a psych eval, and expect US to believe YOU? Why should we believe ANYTHING you have to say? You pathetic little whack job. Did you think we wouldn't find out? Now that we know he did in fact have a psych eval done, what is your next excuse going to be for keeping his children from him? I despise vindictive witches like you.

 

[Grace_Adler]

That's what I'm talkin' 'bout!

Hey, butterfree, got some more questions. How come you kept continuing the case and how come if you wanted a to mutually decide on a psych evaluator you didn't address it in the first place instead of objecting after he had it done?

 

[butterfree]

Apparently anyone who matters is the last to know. . .

. . . That doesn't make sense. If he had a psych eval done in June, why didnt we see it in Court in August when the Judge ordered him to have one. Wouldn't you think he would say "Oh Your Honor, I have already completed that hear it is..???

Go figure.

Everyone has been brainwashed. Car salesman are really good at that. IT'S THEIR JOB!!!! Fare thee well.

 

[JaneyS4]

Awwwww, she's takin her ball and goin home! Shucks!

I hope the judge locks your butt up and tosses the key into the nearest dumpster honey!