Huskerfan, yes he does have an attorney. A hell of a good one who is tired of the BS games that butterfree and her attorney are trying to play with this. The jurisdiction is in Grant's Pass, and the court Date is December 10th. You can IM Rad's g/f by clicking on her name in one of her posts somewhere. Just do a search on the name "bugaboo".
You want the truth butterfree? Here ya go. Since ya think we're all mushrooms.... being kept in the dark and fed a bunch of sh*t.... But I doubt you'll even admit it's the truth once it jumps up and slaps you in the face.
Rad had the eval. done in June. Two seperate times he went for an hour each time. It was filed and completed in July. He COMPLIED with the court order to have the evaluation done ya dumbass. WHY wasn't it admitted at the court date in August? How about the fact of your attorney OBJECTING to it being admitted because it "Wasn't a mutually agreed upon evaluator" or "The doctor isn't here to testify"?? Remember that part? Or has your selective memory kicked in once again? Once again, he COMPLIED with the court order. He had the eval. done. It was never ORDERED that it had to be a "mutually agreed upon evaluator" that is just your stalling tactic. He was simply ordered to get the eval. done, at his own expense I might add, and he COMPLIED with it. It's not his fault if you and your attorney have your heads stuck so far up your respective asses that each time you burp you taste sh*t.
Your real objection to it being entered at the hearing was because it didn't say what YOU wanted it to say. The evaluator concluded that Rad was perfectly capapble of being around his children. Dunno if you have a copy of the eval. or not, but here's a little part from it that you might be interested in....
"OBSERVATIONS, CONCLUSIONS AND RECOMMENDATIONS: Mr. Salts has clearly endured considerable emotional pain and trauma in being kept from having a relationship with his children. He expresses a desire to be cooperative and co-parent with the best interests of the children as the priority." "There seem to be no contraindications at this point in terms of Mr. Salts stability to provide care for his two boys, XXXX and XXXX. The optimal conditions for the two children would be for both parents to cooperate in providing for the needs of their children. Shared custody wherein both parents have equal custodial rights is the ideal situation for the children. However, when one or both parents undermine or sabotage the parenting process there is usually considerable psychological trauma experienced by the children making the ideal of equality more difficult." So, Miss butterfree.... looks like the evaluator put YOU in the hot seat, huh? Seeing as how you've taken every opportunity to "sabatoge" the boys relationship with rad and all....
Now, as to WHY he hasn't had that other one done... the one that you bitched and moaned about having to be a "mutually agreed upon evaluator"?? You gave him a name. He tried to make the appointment the day after the August court date. But, guess what?? That doctor has come up with all kinds of excuses to postpone the consult. First, he wasn't available until Novemebr to begin with because he was "making a movie". Come November when rad called to schedule, he was told the doc was still busy.... now editing said movie. It took rad's attorney finally calling the office only to be told the doc NOW won't be available until after the first of the year because of "family problems". Rad's attorney talked to your attorney to try and get another "mutually agreed upon evaluator" because of all the run around from this "doctor" but you refuse to let anyone do the eval but this one doc. Why is that? Is this the one that will be on your side, so you want ONLY this one to do it? What... you can't deal with the truth? You can't handle the fact that you have f*'d up royally, and your trying everything you know to keep your ass out of a sling? Your attorney is now wanting to continue again, based on the fact that Rad hasn't had the psych evaluation by this ONE particular doctor. Walk into the courtroom next week and say "We want a continuance based on the fact that the evaluator is "indisposed"?? And HAS been "indisposed" for about 4 months now?? Come on, any idiot can see what you're doing. Dragging this out as long as you can to hang on to the children because you KNOW once it all gets out, you're going to come out on the short end, dontcha? Have you told them Rad is dead again, like you did back in 2000? You are the most pathetic piece of crap I've ever had the displeasure of knowing about. You don't deserve the title of "mother".
We're all "brainwashed"? No dear.... we've just seen the actual court papers. We've seen the police reports, we've seen the DA's reports. We've seen it all. Rad has had PROOF of what he says, you have nothing but your typed words in an advice forum. We know how to read and comprehend what we read. Not sit there and blow smoke up people's asses to make ourselves look like the mother of the year when in reality the only catagory you can win in is the Joan Crawford psycho mom of the Century. You can sit there and say all the crap about Rad that you want, but when it comes down to it, the proof is in the pudding... or in this case, the scanner.
) Grace, ryry, LMSP, don't one of you have bug's email?