He doesnt pay, lawyers doing nothing. Foreclosure, car to be repoed, kids not insured

[Checkking]

Who's name is the car in? Dad, or son? If it isn't paid for, the lender will repo it, and driving without insurance is a very bad idea.

what would be the situation if it was in either name?

 

[Checkking]

and like i said before, me getting a min wage job doesnt help with anything when you have to pay a $300k of mortgage , house payments, trying to keep a car he gave as a gift from getting repoed.

 

[mistoffolees]

and like i said before, me getting a min wage job doesnt help with anything when you have to pay a $300k of mortgage , house payments, trying to keep a car he gave as a gift from getting repoed.

Then get rid of the house and buy one you can afford. Get the adult children to take care of their own transportation needs. That's what 'adult' is supposed to mean.

 

[CourtClerk]

Then sell the house and sell the car. You obviously can't afford it.

 

[Proserpina]

You're basically saying that you're unwilling to work. What will you do if something happens to him and he's unable to work himself?

 

[Checkking]

Then sell the house and sell the car. You obviously can't afford it.

cant sell a car or house you dont own

are there not gift laws for the car?

 

[mistoffolees]

do you know what dependent is?

Yes, I do. I'm just having a hard time understanding why it's relevant.

You're not working so you can't claim the deduction.

The kids aren't working so they can't claim the deduction.

It therefore doesn't hurt you for the father to claim the deduction. He may not be entitled to it, but that's an entirely different matter - and has no bearing on your situation.

 

[divona2000]

what would be the situation if it was in either name?

If it's titled only in dad's name, then it's dad's car. Nothing to stop dad from driving it away.

 

[Checkking]

If it's titled only in dad's name, then it's dad's car. Nothing to stop dad from driving it away.

and if its mine and his name?

so it being a gift is not relevant at all? there are no gift laws?

 

[CourtClerk]

are there not gift laws for the car?

Yes, actually there are. It says basically that the car was a gift and therefore, you can do whatever you please with it, including sell if if you can't afford it (which, you can't).

 

[CourtClerk]

I'd also like to know exactly how long you expect your ex husband to support you?

And how is it that if you can't speak English well, you speak well enough to communicate on this forum?

 

[mistoffolees]

4k/month is not his salary. he gets $115k per year

But you said initially that you 'needed' $4 K from each paycheck. Since you've now edited the post, I don't remember if that was biweekly or semimonthly, but it's either $96 K per year or $104 K per year.

Let's take his $115 K salary. After deducting social security and medicare taxes, that's $106 K. Take out income taxes and insurance and you were asking for all of his income.

Even now that you've reduced your demands to $4 K per month, you're still being unreasonable.

 

[Checkking]

does Relative income of the parties matter?

"In U.S. states that recognize a right of the spouses to live according to the means to which they have become accustomed', alimony attempts to adjust the incomes of the spouses so that they are able to approximate, as best possible, their prior lifestyle."

 

[mistoffolees]

I'd also like to know exactly how long you expect your ex husband to support you?

Obviously, forever. She has a $300 K mortgage, after all, and it wouldn't be fair to expect her to do menial labor. And when the mortgage is paid off, she will still need all of his paycheck (or 1/2, depending on which version of her story you accept). And her precious children should never have to work, either.

 

[divona2000]

and if its mine and his name?...

So the car is in both your name and your husband's name? Your sons are driving it, and there is no insurance on it?
What do you think is going to happen if they cause a wreck, and maim or kill someone?