I realize I am speaking to a "brick wall"- But I must throw my two cents in too.....
Crystal, you have been told over and over and over what you should do. You have been given great advice, and should really go back and read through it, not that you will, just some more advice to you. Not one person here is saying, "you are lying and the mother MUST keep the child at all costs." Not one person here is "pro-mother" and "siding with the mother" As one person I believe stated, most people on this board are "pro-children" and want what is best for them. You go in to a court room with the attitude you have, when you get to see first hand how the law works in real life and not just in your one sided mind, and you are going to be a)rudely awakened and B) possibly cause your FIANCE to lose this court case. And he will only have you to thank.
Now that said. I am not "college educated" but if I came out spelling like you, I am happy with not being so, I am only a lowly highschool graduate. BUT English is my favorite subject, and I really hate to see someone butchering it. So here is what I feel I have to do......
myslef=myself
negelgated=neglected
vistatations/visdatations/visatations=visitations(there were more variations of this one, but I
left it at three)
negelgated=neglected(also more variations, but I left it at this one)
finace=fiance(I really do think this one was a typo though)
attoney=attorney(misspelled the same way, twice)
INTREST=interest(once again, misspelled twice)
ORIGANNLY=originally
lyed=lied
responabilty=responsibility
she being sneaky choice to do it herself=(the correct wording would be) she, being sneaky,
chose to do it herself
there schools, there mother, there father= (no matter what you put it in front of it is-)THEIR!(That
one REALLY bothered me)
horriable=horrible
probley=probably
They can't possibly all be "typos". Ok, I must go to work now, so I won't be in until this afternoon to be able to read my bashing, so go ahead and let it begin. I just couldn't stay silent any more.