CJane
Senior Member
If you're not requesting child support, I can't see the courts holding working part time against you. I was working part time when I got divorced because that's the ONLY job I could find that wasn't nights. *shrug* It was never mentioned in court.concernedmom4ki said:I want to work mon-fri 8 - 2:30 but I'm afraid the courts will use the p/t work against me.
What's 'wrong' with it is that it doesn't matter what you want on his days. While it would be nice if he'd use you as a daycare provider, he's under no obligation to do so.I want him to let me see my kids when I can even if it's 'HIS' day... what in the world is so wrong with that???
It doesn't sound to me like he's being hateful, it sounds like he's trying to do the same thing you claim to be trying to do - maintain control over decisions that are made on HIS TIME. It doesn't really matter if the kids want to go to daycare or not - that's the parent's decision to make. They're HIS days. End of story. The kids need to stop expecting you to bail them out of situations they don't want to be in.the kids have asked and I had already made arrangements for them, he's just being hateful.